"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Help me buy a notebook computer

Dapper Swindler

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This is the most expensive thing I've ever bought. Even more expensive than my car. I've been researching this for weeks and I've come to the conclusion that if a computer is cheap, it's cheap for a reason; if it is expensive, it is expensive for a reason. I originally planned to get the cheapest thing available but I'm gradually being suckered into spending more money. I'm very confused about CPUs. At first I was just looking at their GHz speed to compare them. But I was told that wasn't an accurate way to compare them because different processors use their speeds in different ways. Let me show you what I'm looking into.

$998
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.gsp?product_id=3595668
CPU: 1.4 GHz Intel Celeron
+ WXGA Brightview Widescreen


$899
http://www.circuitcity.com/ccd/productDetail.do?oid=108443&WT.mc_n=61&WT.mc_t=U
CPU: AMD Athlon XP-M 2200+
+ DVD buner
+ 80GB hard drive
- battery life

$659
http://www1.us.dell.com/content/products/features.aspx/inspn_1000?c=us&cs=19&l=en&s=dhs
CPU: Mobil Intel Celeron Processor 2.2GHz

$1199
CPU: Intel Centrino Processor 715 2MB
+ I found this one at circuit city today, so not having to order it is a plus
+ DVD burner
+ 80 GB
+ WXGA Brightview
+ Dedicated video memory
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Figure out what software you are going to run first. Compile their requirements and then buy a system that is about twice as powerful. A good rule is to get as much memory (RAM) as you can afford.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sfalexi

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First and foremost, tell us what you plan on using it for. Is it strictly a work computer? Internet and basic programs? Gonna be doing video editing and lots of downloading? Lots of games? What are you using it for?

You wouldn't buy a dodge caravan if you're planning to take it to the local tracks and break some speed records, nor would it make sense to buy a GTO if you're planning on being a soccor mom.

What are you gonna use it for?
 
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