"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help me buy a notebook computer

Dapper Swindler

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This is the most expensive thing I've ever bought. Even more expensive than my car. I've been researching this for weeks and I've come to the conclusion that if a computer is cheap, it's cheap for a reason; if it is expensive, it is expensive for a reason. I originally planned to get the cheapest thing available but I'm gradually being suckered into spending more money. I'm very confused about CPUs. At first I was just looking at their GHz speed to compare them. But I was told that wasn't an accurate way to compare them because different processors use their speeds in different ways. Let me show you what I'm looking into.

$998
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.gsp?product_id=3595668
CPU: 1.4 GHz Intel Celeron
+ WXGA Brightview Widescreen


$899
http://www.circuitcity.com/ccd/productDetail.do?oid=108443&WT.mc_n=61&WT.mc_t=U
CPU: AMD Athlon XP-M 2200+
+ DVD buner
+ 80GB hard drive
- battery life

$659
http://www1.us.dell.com/content/products/features.aspx/inspn_1000?c=us&cs=19&l=en&s=dhs
CPU: Mobil Intel Celeron Processor 2.2GHz

$1199
CPU: Intel Centrino Processor 715 2MB
+ I found this one at circuit city today, so not having to order it is a plus
+ DVD burner
+ 80 GB
+ WXGA Brightview
+ Dedicated video memory
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Figure out what software you are going to run first. Compile their requirements and then buy a system that is about twice as powerful. A good rule is to get as much memory (RAM) as you can afford.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sfalexi

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First and foremost, tell us what you plan on using it for. Is it strictly a work computer? Internet and basic programs? Gonna be doing video editing and lots of downloading? Lots of games? What are you using it for?

You wouldn't buy a dodge caravan if you're planning to take it to the local tracks and break some speed records, nor would it make sense to buy a GTO if you're planning on being a soccor mom.

What are you gonna use it for?
 
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