"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me bust this AFC-thinking (dating multiple women)

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Alright, been on a date with a HB9. Asked her out about a week after the date via text and no response. Last weekend I met a HB7 that I connected with. I'm having a party this weekend and thinking about inviting HB7. What do I do if HB9 calls or if I meet HB9 when we go out?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do people need others to think so deeply for them....

OP, you need to start thinking for yourself bro or you'll never get anywhere in life. You need to work at your mindset so you don't need to ask questions like this.

What would I do ? It's obvious that the "9" isn't interested (for what ever reason). So I'd stick with the "7" for the mean while. If the "9" got in touch with me I'd bluntly question her why she took so long to get back to me. If she wanted to meet back up I'd do it STRICTLY on MY terms > not HERS. If she doesn't like it then she can find someone else stupid enough to fall flat at her feet (don't worry there are plenty of desperate doormats that will).

The bottom line - I'd do what suited ME best. I wouldn't go out my way to please either.
 
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HB9 is not interested, ignore her and advance with the next
No reason to be obsessed over HB9, by "obsessed" I mean you're already wondering what you would do If she calls or bumps into you?
OP your logic is slightly off for now, it's back to the drawing boards you go
 
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