"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Help me bust this AFC-thinking (dating multiple women)

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Alright, been on a date with a HB9. Asked her out about a week after the date via text and no response. Last weekend I met a HB7 that I connected with. I'm having a party this weekend and thinking about inviting HB7. What do I do if HB9 calls or if I meet HB9 when we go out?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why do people need others to think so deeply for them....

OP, you need to start thinking for yourself bro or you'll never get anywhere in life. You need to work at your mindset so you don't need to ask questions like this.

What would I do ? It's obvious that the "9" isn't interested (for what ever reason). So I'd stick with the "7" for the mean while. If the "9" got in touch with me I'd bluntly question her why she took so long to get back to me. If she wanted to meet back up I'd do it STRICTLY on MY terms > not HERS. If she doesn't like it then she can find someone else stupid enough to fall flat at her feet (don't worry there are plenty of desperate doormats that will).

The bottom line - I'd do what suited ME best. I wouldn't go out my way to please either.
 
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HB9 is not interested, ignore her and advance with the next
No reason to be obsessed over HB9, by "obsessed" I mean you're already wondering what you would do If she calls or bumps into you?
OP your logic is slightly off for now, it's back to the drawing boards you go
 
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