"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help me balance the fire! In need of advice, how to reject someone

Toast123

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Oh hey

Often we travel the road, lock the fence and straight up draw it strong. NOT THIS TIME FELLAS!

In desperate need of advice. I got hooked up with a date of which I was not able to see the lucky lady beforehand. Unfortunately as an Israeli of African descent I have a partial dislike of Asian women. Things went that way, she turned up and woops, an Asian happened.

Need some advice guys! I don't want to hurt her, I just want to make her feel like it was not mean to happen.

Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Tell her that as a Israeli of african descent you can mate only with other jewish otherwise they wont allow you to the anniversary of the tanning marathon at the desert,that would work.

Or better yet tell her that as a Israeli of african descent you have developed some particular genetic disease and the only way to have sane sons is to reproduce with an australian aborigen of american indian descent.

You can also creep her out, considering your record in this board its something that comes easy to you.
 

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What I tend to do is to go on the date, spend maybe an hour, be rather distant, then excuse yourself and leave.

That's it, gets the point across without being an ass.

In some cases it can be even more cruel though. All in all you are more attractive than her (otherwise you wouldn't reject her right? ;)), so she has initial interest. Now you are cold and distant on the date which sometimes makes her interested even more...

Trust me this can get especially bad if alcohol is involved. I went on a blind date with an ugly girl. We had some drinks and I couldn't bring myself to leave out of pity... we had more drinks... she starts calling me sexy... when finally we were leaving the venue she literally asked me to "rape" her.

I went home. When I woke up the next morning and could think clearly I was damn happy I didn't sleep with her ;)

Does that sound familiar to you? Well yeah, that's what girls usually do to you. This time it's the other way round. Maybe this will help you understand the game better.
 

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Of course if she's not THAT ugly, you could also be ballsy and straight up tell her from the start "I'm only interested in Sex". Most girls would leave, but if she stays then you're gonna have care-free sex, at her place, so none of your friends see you with her ;) Win/win.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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