"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help me balance the fire! In need of advice, how to reject someone

Toast123

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Oh hey

Often we travel the road, lock the fence and straight up draw it strong. NOT THIS TIME FELLAS!

In desperate need of advice. I got hooked up with a date of which I was not able to see the lucky lady beforehand. Unfortunately as an Israeli of African descent I have a partial dislike of Asian women. Things went that way, she turned up and woops, an Asian happened.

Need some advice guys! I don't want to hurt her, I just want to make her feel like it was not mean to happen.

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who Dares Win

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Tell her that as a Israeli of african descent you can mate only with other jewish otherwise they wont allow you to the anniversary of the tanning marathon at the desert,that would work.

Or better yet tell her that as a Israeli of african descent you have developed some particular genetic disease and the only way to have sane sons is to reproduce with an australian aborigen of american indian descent.

You can also creep her out, considering your record in this board its something that comes easy to you.
 

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What I tend to do is to go on the date, spend maybe an hour, be rather distant, then excuse yourself and leave.

That's it, gets the point across without being an ass.

In some cases it can be even more cruel though. All in all you are more attractive than her (otherwise you wouldn't reject her right? ;)), so she has initial interest. Now you are cold and distant on the date which sometimes makes her interested even more...

Trust me this can get especially bad if alcohol is involved. I went on a blind date with an ugly girl. We had some drinks and I couldn't bring myself to leave out of pity... we had more drinks... she starts calling me sexy... when finally we were leaving the venue she literally asked me to "rape" her.

I went home. When I woke up the next morning and could think clearly I was damn happy I didn't sleep with her ;)

Does that sound familiar to you? Well yeah, that's what girls usually do to you. This time it's the other way round. Maybe this will help you understand the game better.
 

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Of course if she's not THAT ugly, you could also be ballsy and straight up tell her from the start "I'm only interested in Sex". Most girls would leave, but if she stays then you're gonna have care-free sex, at her place, so none of your friends see you with her ;) Win/win.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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