"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help me balance the fire! In need of advice, how to reject someone

Toast123

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Oh hey

Often we travel the road, lock the fence and straight up draw it strong. NOT THIS TIME FELLAS!

In desperate need of advice. I got hooked up with a date of which I was not able to see the lucky lady beforehand. Unfortunately as an Israeli of African descent I have a partial dislike of Asian women. Things went that way, she turned up and woops, an Asian happened.

Need some advice guys! I don't want to hurt her, I just want to make her feel like it was not mean to happen.

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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Tell her that as a Israeli of african descent you can mate only with other jewish otherwise they wont allow you to the anniversary of the tanning marathon at the desert,that would work.

Or better yet tell her that as a Israeli of african descent you have developed some particular genetic disease and the only way to have sane sons is to reproduce with an australian aborigen of american indian descent.

You can also creep her out, considering your record in this board its something that comes easy to you.
 

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What I tend to do is to go on the date, spend maybe an hour, be rather distant, then excuse yourself and leave.

That's it, gets the point across without being an ass.

In some cases it can be even more cruel though. All in all you are more attractive than her (otherwise you wouldn't reject her right? ;)), so she has initial interest. Now you are cold and distant on the date which sometimes makes her interested even more...

Trust me this can get especially bad if alcohol is involved. I went on a blind date with an ugly girl. We had some drinks and I couldn't bring myself to leave out of pity... we had more drinks... she starts calling me sexy... when finally we were leaving the venue she literally asked me to "rape" her.

I went home. When I woke up the next morning and could think clearly I was damn happy I didn't sleep with her ;)

Does that sound familiar to you? Well yeah, that's what girls usually do to you. This time it's the other way round. Maybe this will help you understand the game better.
 

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Of course if she's not THAT ugly, you could also be ballsy and straight up tell her from the start "I'm only interested in Sex". Most girls would leave, but if she stays then you're gonna have care-free sex, at her place, so none of your friends see you with her ;) Win/win.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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