You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thanks fool, don't you think I already tried? I would not waste your time if I didn't. Next time don't reply if you are too stupid to help. Thanks for nothing punk.Ace of Flames said:Try.... like.... a search? I hear they work wonders.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's it! Thanks brother.QueRico said:are you talking about Sapiens thread? check here,
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=87781
lmaoDemocles said:Thanks fool, don't you think I already tried? I would not waste your time if I didn't. Next time don't reply if you are too stupid to help. Thanks for nothing punk.
How old are you? 13?
Listen A55wipe, if you were more mature you would have refrained from posting once the thread was properly answered. You are a fool, no matter at 18 you are excused for being soo stupid.Ace of Flames said:I'm 18, and no matter how old you may be, I'm much more mature.
Haha, you want to join my "Ace of Flames sucks club"?Democles said:Thanks fool, don't you think I already tried? I would not waste your time if I didn't. Next time don't reply if you are too stupid to help. Thanks for nothing punk.
How old are you? 13?
I approve of this club. You should join it, Democles. It only proves further that you guys are obsessed with me. ^_^reallyfreakinlost said:Haha, you want to join my "Ace of Flames sucks club"?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ofcourse I am ingnorant you fool, that's why I am looking for Sapiens thread.Ace of Flames said:I approve of this club. You should join it, Democles. It only proves further that you guys are obsessed with me. ^_^
And Democles, you're constant cussing and insults speak volumes about your character. How ignorant you must be. Sad.
I don't think you should charge that poor gentleman with the heinous crime of being obsessed over you, that's a charge nobody should endure.Ace of Flames said:It only proves further that you guys are obsessed with me. ^_^
And who asked for your opinion? When I want your opinion I will give it to you, now p1ss off. I also would tell you the same face to face punk.Espi said:Posts like these demonstrate why newbies should have to pay to join this site. Frankly, it's pretty disrepectful when a newbie comes in here and runs his mouth off to other members.
Trust me, Dumbassales: You wouldn't get away with it in a person-to-person environment.
Watch your mouth.
The only time you pissed me off was the very first time I flamed the hell out of you. That also seems to be the time you started "harrassing" me.reallyfreakinlost said:And you think I'm obsessed with you? I bring you up all the time because I love to piss you off, maybe you piss me off in return but this is the beauty of the internet.
You really think you pissed me off when you said I should jump off a bridge? Man, that gave me high blood pressure, I got a stroke this morning.Ace of Flames said:The only time you pissed me off was the very first time I flamed the hell out of you. That also seems to be the time you started "harrassing" me.
Now, I think its fun. I see you posted on a thread I posted in, and I think "Oh god, let's see what kinda crap he's come up with this time." We may not agree on much of anything, but hey, we'd be boring if we were the same.
Bring it on, arch-nemesis!![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hahaha, your whole attitude changes when I tell you that you don't piss me off. Classic.reallyfreakinlost said:You really think you pissed me off when you said I should jump off a bridge? Man, that gave me high blood pressure, I got a stroke this morning.
By the way, I called you arch-nemesis because some idiot thought I was talking to him, so I referred to you carelessly as my arch-nemesis. sorry to burst your bubble but you're not that important to me, you're just somebody I like to refute on a regular, daily basis.have a nice day
And you can tell my attitude when I type a smiley face? believe me, I am laughing my ass off after I read each word you type. your writing is PURE GOLDAce of Flames said:Hahaha, your whole attitude changes when I tell you that you don't piss me off. Classic.
And vice-versa for you.reallyfreakinlost said:And you can tell my attitude when I type a smiley face? believe me, I am laughing my ass off after I read each word you type. your writing is PURE GOLD
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.