"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HELP lol just kidding ADVICE

Smartbutdumb

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OK SOooo

>talkin to this ***** i knew and had a thing with already
>previously talked to her but i kind of ****ed up nothing too bad though more like careless type ****
>not bad enough to where i cant talk to her ever again
>its been a while now im talking to her again
>texted her for past 2 days everything is pretty normal :^)
>when i texted her what she was up to she said shes trying to figure out "this nig*as superhero"
>assume shes talking about a bf bcause we have snapchat and it shows what seems to be a dude snapchatting her
>play it off cool make a joke then tell her ill maybe hit her up later
>"maybe sounds arrogant just saying"
>text her later telling her i had **** to do and that i didnt mean to sound arrogant
>no text back

shes not some dumb **** or anything shes pretty normal and smart but did i jump the gun assuming she has a bf?

if she has a bf i just kinda dont want to waste my time
if not then i must lay pipe

what should i do? so far i wanna wait and then just call her whenever to hang out and find out if she has bf or ****

first time posting love the site guys:yes:

upd8: she said she understands what im saying phew
so wtf i dont wanna ask her whos superhero shes trying to figure out because she'll shoot me down later for just trying to **** should i just wait to hangout with her then just come on to her and avoid the bf question completely? she might not even have a bf and im just being neurotic

what do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lmao wtf did I just read?
 

Smartbutdumb

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honestly i guess it sounded dumb but its all good no bf etc but i cant really edit my post anyway just wanted to delete because its taking up space and im making it worse by posting this message now :^(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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