"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Smartbutdumb

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OK SOooo

>talkin to this ***** i knew and had a thing with already
>previously talked to her but i kind of ****ed up nothing too bad though more like careless type ****
>not bad enough to where i cant talk to her ever again
>its been a while now im talking to her again
>texted her for past 2 days everything is pretty normal :^)
>when i texted her what she was up to she said shes trying to figure out "this nig*as superhero"
>assume shes talking about a bf bcause we have snapchat and it shows what seems to be a dude snapchatting her
>play it off cool make a joke then tell her ill maybe hit her up later
>"maybe sounds arrogant just saying"
>text her later telling her i had **** to do and that i didnt mean to sound arrogant
>no text back

shes not some dumb **** or anything shes pretty normal and smart but did i jump the gun assuming she has a bf?

if she has a bf i just kinda dont want to waste my time
if not then i must lay pipe

what should i do? so far i wanna wait and then just call her whenever to hang out and find out if she has bf or ****

first time posting love the site guys:yes:

upd8: she said she understands what im saying phew
so wtf i dont wanna ask her whos superhero shes trying to figure out because she'll shoot me down later for just trying to **** should i just wait to hangout with her then just come on to her and avoid the bf question completely? she might not even have a bf and im just being neurotic

what do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lmao wtf did I just read?
 

Smartbutdumb

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honestly i guess it sounded dumb but its all good no bf etc but i cant really edit my post anyway just wanted to delete because its taking up space and im making it worse by posting this message now :^(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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