"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stark

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friends zone onitis we are seniors in high school and i have a class with her.

i took her to dinner once. (this was her doing)

then i took her to dinner & movie (my doing) nothing happened on these dates tho like kissing.

then i asked her to gameworks. she said ya sure! day before she says she is feeling a little sick. she worked that day anyway. so i was like ok another day when you dont work and she was like ya thats fine.

sunday today i ask her again do you still want to do something later this week when you dont work. she says ya sure.

then i ask ok what day is fine and is gameworks fine or somehting else. and i dont get a reply for almost 2 hours now. is this bad or was the ya sure a good enough thing..... im a little worried.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CORVETTE06

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was this done over an IM? You should have called her so you could have heard her tone of voice to see how she REALLY feels about hanging out again.

I would wait awhile and then casually talk to her about it next time u see her in class
 

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Aye Carumba!!

Now, myself being a persistant young man knows that if a girl has that special zest or flair that you should perhaps keep trying..

Yet.. you also have to know when it's not working out for ya.

BUT the broad said ya sure, so I mean.. not much else you can do but..try and do something with her later..

If things go well, they go well..but if not.. You've tried but looks as if nothing is happening.. so find someone new my friend.

I understand it may be one-itis and all and trust me we all have them, but they are women out there that are just as interesting and fun as your one itis.. I swear.

BUT, you still have a shot.

So make it happen fratello.

-SCF
 

Play the Game

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sigh.... to be plugged in again.

At least you're in high school, and you found this site early.
I see some guys in their mid twenties going after my ex with the same game as you.
 

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Too much damage control. Too much work will be involved. When you finally make a move, she'll give you the "let's just be friends" speech. Next her right now and save yourself the trouble.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daddy The Pimp

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hold on hold on .. take it easy ..
The fact that she didnt reply for 2 hours doesnt mean that she dont wanna reply ..

Maybe she had some work , maybe her father didnt let her on computer without studying , maybe her computer is broken ..

Best way to set a date is face to face or on the phone ..

Anyway wait for her reason why she didnt reply .. If she has a good reason keep doing as u were doing. Good luck :D
 

Johnny_Kage

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Daddy The Pimp said:
hold on hold on .. take it easy ..
The fact that she didnt reply for 2 hours doesnt mean that she dont wanna reply ..

Maybe she had some work , maybe her father didnt let her on computer without studying , maybe her computer is broken ..

Best way to set a date is face to face or on the phone ..

Anyway wait for her reason why she didnt reply .. If she has a good reason keep doing as u were doing. Good luck :D
My only problem with this is they already went on 3 dates and he did nothing. He might already be in LJBF land. Maybe I was a little hasty with the nexting. But definitely game other girls and don't put this one at high priority.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Johnny_Kage said:
My only problem with this is they already went on 3 dates and he did nothing. He might already be in LJBF land. Maybe I was a little hasty with the nexting. But definitely game other girls and don't put this one at high priority.
lol .. yea he could be in LJBF list .. but ask her if she wanna go out with you again .. if she wants ok if she doesnt want fvck her .. about priority , dont give any of these girls high priority .. They just come and go ..
 
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