"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stark

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friends zone onitis we are seniors in high school and i have a class with her.

i took her to dinner once. (this was her doing)

then i took her to dinner & movie (my doing) nothing happened on these dates tho like kissing.

then i asked her to gameworks. she said ya sure! day before she says she is feeling a little sick. she worked that day anyway. so i was like ok another day when you dont work and she was like ya thats fine.

sunday today i ask her again do you still want to do something later this week when you dont work. she says ya sure.

then i ask ok what day is fine and is gameworks fine or somehting else. and i dont get a reply for almost 2 hours now. is this bad or was the ya sure a good enough thing..... im a little worried.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CORVETTE06

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was this done over an IM? You should have called her so you could have heard her tone of voice to see how she REALLY feels about hanging out again.

I would wait awhile and then casually talk to her about it next time u see her in class
 

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Aye Carumba!!

Now, myself being a persistant young man knows that if a girl has that special zest or flair that you should perhaps keep trying..

Yet.. you also have to know when it's not working out for ya.

BUT the broad said ya sure, so I mean.. not much else you can do but..try and do something with her later..

If things go well, they go well..but if not.. You've tried but looks as if nothing is happening.. so find someone new my friend.

I understand it may be one-itis and all and trust me we all have them, but they are women out there that are just as interesting and fun as your one itis.. I swear.

BUT, you still have a shot.

So make it happen fratello.

-SCF
 

Play the Game

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sigh.... to be plugged in again.

At least you're in high school, and you found this site early.
I see some guys in their mid twenties going after my ex with the same game as you.
 

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Too much damage control. Too much work will be involved. When you finally make a move, she'll give you the "let's just be friends" speech. Next her right now and save yourself the trouble.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Daddy The Pimp

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hold on hold on .. take it easy ..
The fact that she didnt reply for 2 hours doesnt mean that she dont wanna reply ..

Maybe she had some work , maybe her father didnt let her on computer without studying , maybe her computer is broken ..

Best way to set a date is face to face or on the phone ..

Anyway wait for her reason why she didnt reply .. If she has a good reason keep doing as u were doing. Good luck :D
 

Johnny_Kage

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Daddy The Pimp said:
hold on hold on .. take it easy ..
The fact that she didnt reply for 2 hours doesnt mean that she dont wanna reply ..

Maybe she had some work , maybe her father didnt let her on computer without studying , maybe her computer is broken ..

Best way to set a date is face to face or on the phone ..

Anyway wait for her reason why she didnt reply .. If she has a good reason keep doing as u were doing. Good luck :D
My only problem with this is they already went on 3 dates and he did nothing. He might already be in LJBF land. Maybe I was a little hasty with the nexting. But definitely game other girls and don't put this one at high priority.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Johnny_Kage said:
My only problem with this is they already went on 3 dates and he did nothing. He might already be in LJBF land. Maybe I was a little hasty with the nexting. But definitely game other girls and don't put this one at high priority.
lol .. yea he could be in LJBF list .. but ask her if she wanna go out with you again .. if she wants ok if she doesnt want fvck her .. about priority , dont give any of these girls high priority .. They just come and go ..
 
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