"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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help, is there any way to decrese mussle

young--j

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i want to know if it was any way to do that because i got a real football type neck and i hate that **** any help would be nice
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Quit working out and decrease the calories you're taking in. I wouldn't recommend it though. My guess is you're not very muscular anyways.
 

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Your neck and trapezius are constantly worked so its hard as hell to make em get smaller. Everything from carrying to lifting stuff to wearing your backpack will work the traps. Therefore, its not likely that they will get smaller. Work out your deltoids to balance it out.


Also, if you're a naturally skinny guy, your traps will probably have a steeper incline, and your shoulders wont be as broad. In this case, you have to work out your entire upper body to balance it out.
 

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You probably look good like that. Work out the entire body, "enlarge" it to porportion it with the rest of the body.
 

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Start working out every other body part (as everyone said already) than the traps and maybe try to avoid exercises using the traps
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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