"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jmac said:
Ok I know what I shouldve done now. The question is, what do I do after messing up like that?
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NC a few days (about 3 or so to help reset her mind-state from thinking you're a lamer), then try something like my text (either as a template or as is). If you're lucky it might not be too late.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jmac said:
Ok I know what I shouldve done now. The question is, what do I do after messing up like that?
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Well the first thing you should stop doing is worrying so much. I get the distinct impression that your makeout session with this girl is the closest you've been to sex in a while.

Chill out for a few days. Don't text her for a week. Maybe she reaches out to you first. Or maybe it's just enough time to make her realize that she doesnt have you wrapped around her finger.

Honestly, I'm not even sure you "messed up" that badly. You could probably text her tomorrow and set up a date. But since you're freaking out so much, I'll just advise you to chill out for a while.
 
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Alright NC, got that. The reason im stressing this is... shes not that good looking so I feel I really lost alot of my dignity.

Im going to play the Jealousy game, I changed my profile pic on one of my social networks to one I took with a good looking girl I used to mess with. Once she sees this she'll probably contact me. Now ball is back in my court.

P.S: Im not planning on contacting her unless she contacts me first.
 
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