"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jmac said:
Ok I know what I shouldve done now. The question is, what do I do after messing up like that?
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NC a few days (about 3 or so to help reset her mind-state from thinking you're a lamer), then try something like my text (either as a template or as is). If you're lucky it might not be too late.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jmac said:
Ok I know what I shouldve done now. The question is, what do I do after messing up like that?
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Well the first thing you should stop doing is worrying so much. I get the distinct impression that your makeout session with this girl is the closest you've been to sex in a while.

Chill out for a few days. Don't text her for a week. Maybe she reaches out to you first. Or maybe it's just enough time to make her realize that she doesnt have you wrapped around her finger.

Honestly, I'm not even sure you "messed up" that badly. You could probably text her tomorrow and set up a date. But since you're freaking out so much, I'll just advise you to chill out for a while.
 
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Alright NC, got that. The reason im stressing this is... shes not that good looking so I feel I really lost alot of my dignity.

Im going to play the Jealousy game, I changed my profile pic on one of my social networks to one I took with a good looking girl I used to mess with. Once she sees this she'll probably contact me. Now ball is back in my court.

P.S: Im not planning on contacting her unless she contacts me first.
 
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