Help! I'm paranoid and care way too much about what others are thinking about me!

[oakraiderz2]

Why are you calling people names? Why are you calling me a loser when i TRIED to give you advice? You dont know me do you? Im gonna go with no. Im not the one crying and denying my reality like someone. Go read what you wrote to people and think about how much of an ******* you appear to be because people dont tell you what you wanna hear. You want us to stop complaing about youre complaing....GO SOMEWHERE ELSE! As a group, we see your patterns and point them out to you; however, for some reason YOU think we are collectivly wrong. Everone is saying the samething...does that not mean anything to you? Its you against everyone elses opinion, yet you think "we dont know what we're talking about" and "we're all losers".

Now, back to youre brash feelings towards me. You can call me whatever you want, but at the end of the day you know what position youre in. Im NOT the one making these sorts of post. Im NOT the one who has no confidence, is an *******, is in denial,sounds like a chimpmunk with no balls, and im NOT a loser. Im pretty sure im everything you wish you could be but dont want to work for. Call me names or whatever, you insults have no depth...unlike mine. Youre a baby, you cant take critisim WHAT SO EVER! Not even constructively because "no one knows what theyre talking about. Stop posting here, we all hate you and you hate us. Youre basically a waste of a person by acting the way you do. Ive never felt so sorry for someone as much as i do you. I and the others here see how you really are which explains why you have no friends. Keep trying to justify your brash outburst with your illogical thoughts. Go jack off to some animal porn, youre only wasting your time here.

EDIT: If you think we dont know what we're talking about and that we complain too much, try posting this trash in the discussion forum and see how fast you get ripped apart.

 

[Soupar]

This is getting funnier and funnier, Viper's gotta be a troll...

 

[Viper]

On and on, call me what you want, but I don't care for peoples ramblings, either give advice or don't give it. Go babble to someone who cares, I don't even care about this topic anymore, because I posted this to get ADVICE, not here peoples whining, b*tching, rambling, sh*t-talking and critisism.

 

[Soupar]

Okay, viper. I'll give you some advice. Go back and read and concentrate on what these many people told you, and ignore the offensive comments. Not many of the comments here are actually set on offending you, alot of its just the truth. This is the last thing i'll say, and i know its been said before, but maybe you'll have enough class to step up and complete your goals like you came here to do.

And if the mods decide to close this i request that its not deleted, just made so nobody can reply. This way if Viper wants to be a man and get determained he can learn from what everyone has said.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by Soupar
Okay, viper. I'll give you some advice. Go back and read and concentrate on what these many people told you, and ignore the offensive comments. Not many of the comments here are actually set on offending you, alot of its just the truth. This is the last thing i'll say, and i know its been said before, but maybe you'll have enough class to step up and complete your goals like you came here to do.

And if the mods decide to close this i request that its not deleted, just made so nobody can reply. This way if Viper wants to be a man and get determained he can learn from what everyone has said.

The truth? Nah, it's not the truth, it's just people talking about stuff they don't know, but I'm not going on, since I know just by writing this comment, some as*hole, who thinks he knows who I am, is going to make a 5 paged rambling. But yes, I will check that advice.

 

[i am me]

please listen to oakraiderz. please man. he's right. accept it then at least we'll respect you for being a man and admitting that you're wrong. you're being hypocritical saying that no one listens to you or understands you but then you don't listen to anyone else...i understand where you're coming from man, and you're going about this all wrong. youre not gonna change with that attitude.

/\btw, THIS is advice, dont tell me no ones giving you advice cus heres some rite here

 

[Holland]

First thing to solving a problem is admitting it exists.

 

[sasha89]

Viper, so you care what people think of you too much?

Thats normal, ok. People dont walk around naked because they obviously care what others will think of them.
In your case you care TOO MUCH.

Your solution is to prove them wrong. Dont worry about them for now.
Forget about picking up chicks and stuff atm because obviously you've still got A LOT to improve on.

Start of by hitting the gym. I dont give a **** if everyone is a huge football player and your a little stick, it doesnt matter.
Where do you think they started?
Also, start training more wrestling more seriously.

Then at wrestling, IF you do improve after a few months, people will look at you differently in a good way.

MY BEST PEICE OF ADVICE TO YOU IS (SO LISTEN UP):

When people say something negative about you, you start crying and flaming them. This is the truth, face it.
If you just laugh it off or ignore it, people will respond more positively to you instead of flaming you in your threads.

"If you wish to be treated a certain way, treat the other person the same way you wish to be treated in"

This is my advice, take it or leave it.

Its your life.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by Holland
First thing to solving a problem is admitting it exists.

Yeah, like you have a problem putting words in other peoples mouths. No one was ever denying the problem, maybe you're just paranoid. Just like you automatically assume I don't read a post if I don't reply to it.

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, like you have a problem putting words in other peoples mouths. No one was ever denying the problem, maybe you're just paranoid. Just like you automatically assume I don't read a post if I don't reply to it.

Advice number 1- Admit that you are wrong and calm the freak down.

Advice number 2- Stop flaming people because you are "offended."

Advice number 3- Get rid of this negativity because it isn't attractive.

Advice number 4- Talk to your friends because having human contact can make communicating easier.

Advice number 5- Read or reread the DJ Bible because you're failing.

Advice number 6- Stop flip flopping because it only makes you look like an insecure idiot.

Advice number 7- Talk to women and give them confident eye contact.

Advice number 8- Read everyone elses advice and stop being overly picky about what advice that you want to take.

Advice number 9- Talk to a therapist to fix your "paranoia."

Now you have the advice....use it.

 

[Quagmire911]

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Advice number 10-Instead of reading and replying to "offensive" posts, read and apply to non-offensive advice related posts.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by DJ4Real
Advice number 1- Admit that you are wrong and calm the freak down.

Advice number 2- Stop flaming people because you are "offended."

Advice number 3- Get rid of this negativity because it isn't attractive.

Advice number 4- Talk to your friends because having human contact can make communicating easier.

Advice number 5- Read or reread the DJ Bible because you're failing.

Advice number 6- Stop flip flopping because it only makes you look like an insecure idiot.

Advice number 7- Talk to women and give them confident eye contact.

Advice number 8- Read everyone elses advice and stop being overly picky about what advice that you want to take.

Advice number 9- Talk to a therapist to fix your "paranoia."

Now you have the advice....use it.

Haha... okay, now I'm laughing, okay, so, point it out to me dude, WHERE DID I F*CKING DENY IT? Because I sure don't remember saying, "OMGZ I DON'T HAVE PROBLEM, LOLZ". Stop putting words in my mouth. The paranoia isn't that serious either, dude, wow, I'm insecure, so I should go see a therapist? It's not even that serious dude.

 

[dirtyvibe]

Originally posted by Viper
Haha... okay, now I'm laughing, okay, so, point it out to me dude, WHERE DID I F*CKING DENY IT? Because I sure don't remember saying, "OMGZ I DON'T HAVE PROBLEM, LOLZ". Stop putting words in my mouth. The paranoia isn't that serious either, dude, wow, I'm insecure, so I should go see a therapist? It's not even that serious dude.

you need to get a vagina

 

[AC/DC]

I think he has obsessive complusive disorder. Maybe he as social anxiety disorder.

It's not humanly possible to be this unobservant.

I'm starting to think "troll", but a troll wouldn't go this far.

 

[Holland]

We're not talking about me here, are we? I don't have a problem I like to solve. You do. If not, why would you be opening threads like this every f*cking week? I'll tell you why. Because you're desperate, that's why. It may not seem desperate to you, cause you're used to it and you think: "I do not need serieus help, it's not that bad"

Dude, I don't know about you, but if I would create threads like this so many times and get totally freaked out and pissed because some people across the internet tell me things I don't wanna hear then I would definetly consider myself someone who needs serieus help.

But be my guest, tell me I have a problem with putting words in someone elses mouth on an internet forum.

In the end, you're still stuck in you're same state, not willing to accept suggestions from others and never able to change.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Holland
We're not talking about me here, are we? I don't have a problem I like to solve. You do. If not, why would you be opening threads like this every f*cking week? I'll tell you why. Because you're desperate, that's why. It may not seem desperate to you, cause you're used to it and you think: "I do not need serieus help, it's not that bad"

Dude, I don't know about you, but if I would create threads like this so many times and get totally freaked out and pissed because some people across the internet tell me things I don't wanna hear then I would definetly consider myself someone who needs serieus help.

But be my guest, tell me I have a problem with putting words in someone elses mouth on an internet forum.

In the end, you're still stuck in you're same state, not willing to accept suggestions from others and never able to change.

Hmmm...how should i say this?? Here we go...ahem....CHECK....AND.....MATE.

 

[Soupar]

Damn guys..

Lay off viper. He's heard this **** a million times now. I know I contributed to it but if this kid wants to learn then you all need to step back a bit and give him his room. Give him a chance to read these posts and work on the bible, you're just discouraging him from fixing his problems.

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Soupar
Damn guys..

Lay off viper. He's heard this **** a million times now. I know I contributed to it but if this kid wants to learn then you all need to step back a bit and give him his room. Give him a chance to read these posts and work on the bible, you're just discouraging him from fixing his problems.

He shouldn't post if he wants to figure stuff out alone.

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Viper
Haha... okay, now I'm laughing, okay, so, point it out to me dude, WHERE DID I F*CKING DENY IT? Because I sure don't remember saying, "OMGZ I DON'T HAVE PROBLEM, LOLZ". Stop putting words in my mouth. The paranoia isn't that serious either, dude, wow, I'm insecure, so I should go see a therapist? It's not even that serious dude.

You've been implying that you don't have a problem. If you know that you have a problem, then shut up and let people try to help.

 

[Viper]

we are some how inferior to you? The facts are: you don't know how to interact with people and you like the drama, you are a drama w*ore, dude. Do us a favor, ask your so called "friends" about how to deal with your situation.

Haha and you would know that? How so, dude? You've never actually talked to me in real life, so you would have no way of knowing whether I could interact or not.

Originally posted by AC/DC
I think he has obsessive complusive disorder. Maybe he as social anxiety disorder.

It's not humanly possible to be this unobservant.

I'm starting to think "troll", but a troll wouldn't go this far.

You know what dude, quite, I don't need to hear your ramblings. If you want to accuse me of being a troll, don't do that sh*t in my topic, because I don't want to f*cking hear it.

We're not talking about me here, are we? I don't have a problem I like to solve. You do. If not, why would you be opening threads like this every f*cking week? I'll tell you why. Because you're desperate, that's why. It may not seem desperate to you, cause you're used to it and you think: "I do not need serieus help, it's not that bad"

Dude, I don't know about you, but if I would create threads like this so many times and get totally freaked out and pissed because some people across the internet tell me things I don't wanna hear then I would definetly consider myself someone who needs serieus help.

But be my guest, tell me I have a problem with putting words in someone elses mouth on an internet forum.

In the end, you're still stuck in you're same state, not willing to accept suggestions from others and never able to change.

I've never freaked out over someone giving me advice, it's when people talk sh*t and critisize me about something they don't know anything about. Just like you are right now.
And oh yeah, I do take suggestions, I made a thread about how I was bored, you guys told me to join the wrestling team and viola, I joined and I'm loving it, you guys gave me advice on approaching, I started to approach girls; now, approaching girls isn't even a problem anymore, it's getting them attracted and wanting you, never has a girl that I've approached, ever even casually approached me afterwords, because she's just not interested. Plus, dude, you're missing the f*cking point, the point is that you're telling me to admit to something, I never denied.

You've been implying that you don't have a problem. If you know that you have a problem, then shut up and let people try to help.

How so? Far as I see, I didn't state it in actual words, I didn't imply; you just made a bullsh*t assumption.