"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HElp ..im going crazy....cz of this gurl

mikeiron

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ok guy if u guys have ny tips or nything please!! help me.. ok lemme start my story....:(

there is this gurl that i really really like, and i would wanna go out with her.. but the big problom is that she got a BOY friend, and they ben goin out for a wile...at the bigening we were js frend then i started to like her, and one night we were hanging out alone as friends..and idno wat happend..n we js made out, she didnt tell her bf or ny thing, but were still friends..and they are still going out...sudenlly last month she toled me that she has sum feelings for me that goes on and off like she likes me alot but or sumtimes she doesnt..mosly does:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :( ..and she says she loves her boy friend....idno wat to do and i cant stop thinkin about her...pleasseeee


sum of u guys HELP!!! tell my sutming to do .. how ot get hr like me more..or wat to do about her or her bf.....and they sumtimes go of and on like 1 day they will break up n next day back to gether.....pls guys hellp A.S.A.P!!!:cry: :confused:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well first of all, it would be helpful to write actual english, not netspeek.
kthx ;)

since she has a b/f, she cannot have another one, so move on.]
FORGET HER.

and if you say "can stop thinking about her", you have two possibilities:
1. go emo, become myspace-addict, wear black clothes, be depressed, WASTE YOUR YOUTH FOR NOTHING,

2. grow some balls, get over it, look at other girls, start living and loving.

it's your choice man. you only have one life.
 

The Real Ice Man

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Yes and consider this...

She made out with you even though she has a boyfriend. Imagine if you suddenly became her boyfriend...how could you be sure of the loyalty of this girl since she has fooled around with guys that she wasn't with before while in a relationship? This girl is probably very impulsive and does things before thinking about the consequences of them later. People like this in general are very hard to maintain a relationship with. You deserve better.
 
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