"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HElp ..im going crazy....cz of this gurl

mikeiron

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ok guy if u guys have ny tips or nything please!! help me.. ok lemme start my story....:(

there is this gurl that i really really like, and i would wanna go out with her.. but the big problom is that she got a BOY friend, and they ben goin out for a wile...at the bigening we were js frend then i started to like her, and one night we were hanging out alone as friends..and idno wat happend..n we js made out, she didnt tell her bf or ny thing, but were still friends..and they are still going out...sudenlly last month she toled me that she has sum feelings for me that goes on and off like she likes me alot but or sumtimes she doesnt..mosly does:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :( ..and she says she loves her boy friend....idno wat to do and i cant stop thinkin about her...pleasseeee


sum of u guys HELP!!! tell my sutming to do .. how ot get hr like me more..or wat to do about her or her bf.....and they sumtimes go of and on like 1 day they will break up n next day back to gether.....pls guys hellp A.S.A.P!!!:cry: :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dogfish

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well first of all, it would be helpful to write actual english, not netspeek.
kthx ;)

since she has a b/f, she cannot have another one, so move on.]
FORGET HER.

and if you say "can stop thinking about her", you have two possibilities:
1. go emo, become myspace-addict, wear black clothes, be depressed, WASTE YOUR YOUTH FOR NOTHING,

2. grow some balls, get over it, look at other girls, start living and loving.

it's your choice man. you only have one life.
 

The Real Ice Man

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Yes and consider this...

She made out with you even though she has a boyfriend. Imagine if you suddenly became her boyfriend...how could you be sure of the loyalty of this girl since she has fooled around with guys that she wasn't with before while in a relationship? This girl is probably very impulsive and does things before thinking about the consequences of them later. People like this in general are very hard to maintain a relationship with. You deserve better.
 
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