"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help! I'm addicted...

J.T.

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...to sugar, salt, and grease! I can't stop myself from eating processed junk food, or what I like to call "filth". I can hold out for a few days, but then I always hit it up again.

Fortunately, I don't suffer from being over weight, but I have been experiencing other adverse health consequences because of it such as lowered stamina, high blood pressure, and a pastey complexion, and it probably contributes to my bouts of depression and erratic sleeping patterns. I'm also concerned about future effects on my health.

So how do I kick that habit of walking over to the local 7-11 everyday for my fix of filth?

Your input is appreciated!

- J.T.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soshyopathe

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Oh my god, please change your user name. My name is JT, and seeing someone else by that name is creepy.
 

xyzzy

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What did it for me was when I decided to fast for a week. Yeah it was pretty drastic but after eating nothing but fast food all through college I needed to do something.

After I came off the fast I only ate at home, and pretty much broke my habit of stopping off at the McDonalds after work. I lost 60 pounds, not from some fad diet but from coming off the trans-fatty glop and eating good old fashioned food.

Not that I recommend fasting for you, but the point is: That food isnt flying in from the West somewhere and landing in your lap. If its a habit then find some way of changing it, like buying a magazine the next time you find yourself in a 7-11.
 
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Fred Da Head

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How come everyone loses weight when they drop the fast food, and I didn't?

Back in late august I dropped fast food considerably. I gave myself a cheat day every week but during the week I barely ate any junk, if any. I lost maybe 5-10 pounds until December, while playing football (lots of cardio) and eating right. When I got off football and went back to weight training, I gained a couple of pounds. I'm guessing it's muscle but it still pisses me off that I didn't lose much weight.

Anyway, for me it's just willpower and seeign what I wanted to accomplish, so I guess it works only if you have goals like I did.
 

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Hey, buddy, don't listen to the scale, listen to the mirror. If you gain weight in muscle you look gooder. And your diet was working! If you stop, maybe it won't work any more?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FekTraz

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you dont really have to give up junk food then, it sounds like you have good enough genetics that they dont make fat...unlike myself and most other human beings...i would just change what you eat, ie, sunchips and baked lays instead of cheetos, or whatever else it is that you take in
 

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Fred,



Muscle weighs 3 times as much as fat, so the weight you gained was probably muscle. As long as you like the way you look, then forget how much you weigh.
 

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Hey, I just make myself a lunch everyday and eat that. I am a skinny basta*d, but I usually pack about 6-8 sandwiches per day, thus I eat very healthy and I'm never hungry, so I never have a need for fast food. It saves you a crapload of money too. I'm talking 50-75 bucks a week. Add it up.
 

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The way to motivate yourself to quit eating junk food is the way I did it. I said to myself "I'm sick of being a fat pig, and this junk food is the top reason that i'm fat." Whenever you start to reach for that junk food, think "Hmmm... would I rather be in good shape and look good or have a doughnut?" Which pleasure will last longer? You can do it, remember, You are THE MAN!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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