"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help! I'm a dancing monkey!

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wanderlust420

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Hi all, I've come to the harsh realization that when I go out, I am all fun/"woo" and no intent.

Last night I was at a bar and was dancing with the off-duty waitresses which was a lot of fun, but in the end left with nothing. No #s, nada.

I need quick help. Any words of advice or kicks in the ass are very much welcomed.

From what I can gather, my issues are incorporating hot eye contact and intent into my usual fun/"woo!" game.

Anyone that can relate???

:woo: :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can also relate. What Noob said is right. I would also add to that:
- start touching a lot (huggung, kissing on cheek, etc)
- add some ****iness: (i.e. "If you want to keep dancing with me, you have to buy me a drink")
 
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wanderlust420

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I should also add in the issue with isolation - the venue was a small area in front of the bar, the lights had been turned on, and the group was a bunch of co-workers.

I know this shouldn't make a huge difference, and it sounds like I'm just making excuses - but I feel things would have been better in a dark, open club, for example.

...but I'm still a wussy for not getting any digits, especially after at one point, one of the waitresses was bending me over and slapping my ass...(!)

I need a piano dropped on my head.
 
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