"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Help If Possible :)

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Okay just wanted some help with some girl who is very unpredictable, or is very predictable and I am missing things. Okay see what you think.


Yesterday:

Me: *standing up doing some thing in French, (our teacher is always playing games)

Her: *Shouting hints at me*

Me: *Other person still beats me*

Her: Oh you silly boy that was easy

Me: Not when-

Teacher *Next one to point to*

Her: *Shouting hints again*

Me: *Get it*

Her: Ohh finally :p... ... go out with me

Me: (Some fat slag lied to me that she was going out with some really hard kid in our class) Nah... (Remind me to kill fat slag)

Teacher: *Next phrase*

Her: *Still shouting hints at me* Look, look it's right there!

Me: *Gets it*

Teacher: Oh well done Lucy (girl I am against)... Go sit back down Venusian Artist

Her: No he won that, he got it right away!

Teacher: Next up isss...



Well I am not gonna go through the whole thing... I will post updates as they come, oh and also, giving me possible sh!t tests, and a few IOIs... Well quite a lot... Making conversation with me, etc. etc. Especially in my German class where I sit next to her (I know it doesn't sound much but she usually only talks to all the jocks, I am averagely - semi-popular myself... She's NEVER spoken to any other kids in my sort of caliber if you like)... Lots of attention...

Take into consideration that the same fat slag who told me she had that hard boyfriend (who also HATES this girl as well by the way), tells me that she is a player and is just messing with me. What to believe? Of course, like I said, I will update when possible...

Thanks in advance, but I will probably say it again anyway... But still :)

I realise that this alone is probably not enough to be drawing conclusions... Read my other thread wherever it is? "Help please" or something, I go through another situation in that.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123504


Oh and 2 days back (in RS):

Boy mate: Oh you still fancy him then?
Her: Shut up!
Boy mate: Bu-
Her: Shut up!
Boy mate: *shuts up*
Her: *Whispering in his ear looking at me*
Boy mate: Oh
Her girl mate: *whispers into her ear*
Her: *Whispers back*
Her girl mate: Looks at me for a few seconds and then says something or other to her and looks back...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok fat slag probably likes you or is just a *****. (either way shes insecure) And this chick.. we'll I am guessing but.. I would say shes got a big crush on you. Hit that **** up. Stop beating it for like 2 weeks. Do it man and it will happen by itself.
 

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Cheers mate, and as for fat slag, she really is a ***** in all its glory :l I sit next to her in German tomorrow and was planning to try the plam reading kino test to see how it goes... Thanks mate.
 
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Just ask her out to go to a French Cafe - order some French fries and then French kiss her!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Just ask her out to go to a French Cafe - order some French fries and then French kiss her!
If ONLY we had a french cafe *rolls eyes*

How will MacDoncalds do for French fries :p?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Today:

I realise that I have a few missed oppurtunities, but most of the things went so quick that I didn't have the chance to think.

Surprisingly she didn't even look my way during German, or at least nothing I noticed, and never spoke to me then, but during the day she began to say more and look at me more.


Music (missed oppurtunity heaven):

Her: Come play that music for me please

Me: (I have used "it'll cost ya" and "you have to do something for me first" already) Okay
(Her mate kept pulling the plug so I had to do it again, but on the third time I stopped, I thought I had let her control me enough *rolls eyes*)

End of music:

Her: Erm what do you think you're doing leaving that keyboard half off of the top shelf that could fall and hit someone...

Me: Oh, ouch, you should see to that...

Her: Erm put it back on, I can't reach it...

Me: Oh you're too short (possible "I think I prefer taller girls" or something)

Her: *Puts her arm around me* I need a big strong man to do it for me :p *Other hand on my arm and rubs my back* (Light-hearted about the whole big strong man thing but genuine kino)

Me: I k-

Her boy mate: *pushes it back on*

Her: Ohh my big strong man :p

I really didn't know much what had happened until I walked away from the lesson. I really missed a few good chances to use C+F possibly.


Hmm she still mentions me kind of often, e.g.

Miss, did you know Venusian Artist is a right little alchy? :p
Miss, Venusian Artist has his mobile on :p
Miss, Venusian Artist has his PSP with him :p

etc. etc. Not that any of that is very important I just felt like mentioning it. Still eye contact from her end as long as I keep mine, which I tend not to break. She seems to flirt with some of her mates but I don't know if it's just the way she is to them, she seems to be that way. Only to her closest friends I mean, like her best mates... So kino directed to anybody else wouldn't fall under this.

Anyway, tell me what ya think :)
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
is it just me or does this post make no sense whatsoever?
I'm just stuck on where I am at with this girl, I don't know if it sounds obvious to you but it's been harder to work out than you might think.

I'm just going through a few situations with her with you, and seeing if anyone can explain and point certain things out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Quit pvssy-footing around and ask her out!! What else can we tell you???

If a girl rubs my back - I'm taking that as a "go"!!
 
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