"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Okay just wanted some help with some girl who is very unpredictable, or is very predictable and I am missing things. Okay see what you think.


Yesterday:

Me: *standing up doing some thing in French, (our teacher is always playing games)

Her: *Shouting hints at me*

Me: *Other person still beats me*

Her: Oh you silly boy that was easy

Me: Not when-

Teacher *Next one to point to*

Her: *Shouting hints again*

Me: *Get it*

Her: Ohh finally :p... ... go out with me

Me: (Some fat slag lied to me that she was going out with some really hard kid in our class) Nah... (Remind me to kill fat slag)

Teacher: *Next phrase*

Her: *Still shouting hints at me* Look, look it's right there!

Me: *Gets it*

Teacher: Oh well done Lucy (girl I am against)... Go sit back down Venusian Artist

Her: No he won that, he got it right away!

Teacher: Next up isss...



Well I am not gonna go through the whole thing... I will post updates as they come, oh and also, giving me possible sh!t tests, and a few IOIs... Well quite a lot... Making conversation with me, etc. etc. Especially in my German class where I sit next to her (I know it doesn't sound much but she usually only talks to all the jocks, I am averagely - semi-popular myself... She's NEVER spoken to any other kids in my sort of caliber if you like)... Lots of attention...

Take into consideration that the same fat slag who told me she had that hard boyfriend (who also HATES this girl as well by the way), tells me that she is a player and is just messing with me. What to believe? Of course, like I said, I will update when possible...

Thanks in advance, but I will probably say it again anyway... But still :)

I realise that this alone is probably not enough to be drawing conclusions... Read my other thread wherever it is? "Help please" or something, I go through another situation in that.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123504


Oh and 2 days back (in RS):

Boy mate: Oh you still fancy him then?
Her: Shut up!
Boy mate: Bu-
Her: Shut up!
Boy mate: *shuts up*
Her: *Whispering in his ear looking at me*
Boy mate: Oh
Her girl mate: *whispers into her ear*
Her: *Whispers back*
Her girl mate: Looks at me for a few seconds and then says something or other to her and looks back...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok fat slag probably likes you or is just a *****. (either way shes insecure) And this chick.. we'll I am guessing but.. I would say shes got a big crush on you. Hit that **** up. Stop beating it for like 2 weeks. Do it man and it will happen by itself.
 
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Cheers mate, and as for fat slag, she really is a ***** in all its glory :l I sit next to her in German tomorrow and was planning to try the plam reading kino test to see how it goes... Thanks mate.
 
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Just ask her out to go to a French Cafe - order some French fries and then French kiss her!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Just ask her out to go to a French Cafe - order some French fries and then French kiss her!
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If ONLY we had a french cafe *rolls eyes*

How will MacDoncalds do for French fries :p?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Today:

I realise that I have a few missed oppurtunities, but most of the things went so quick that I didn't have the chance to think.

Surprisingly she didn't even look my way during German, or at least nothing I noticed, and never spoke to me then, but during the day she began to say more and look at me more.


Music (missed oppurtunity heaven):

Her: Come play that music for me please

Me: (I have used "it'll cost ya" and "you have to do something for me first" already) Okay
(Her mate kept pulling the plug so I had to do it again, but on the third time I stopped, I thought I had let her control me enough *rolls eyes*)

End of music:

Her: Erm what do you think you're doing leaving that keyboard half off of the top shelf that could fall and hit someone...

Me: Oh, ouch, you should see to that...

Her: Erm put it back on, I can't reach it...

Me: Oh you're too short (possible "I think I prefer taller girls" or something)

Her: *Puts her arm around me* I need a big strong man to do it for me :p *Other hand on my arm and rubs my back* (Light-hearted about the whole big strong man thing but genuine kino)

Me: I k-

Her boy mate: *pushes it back on*

Her: Ohh my big strong man :p

I really didn't know much what had happened until I walked away from the lesson. I really missed a few good chances to use C+F possibly.


Hmm she still mentions me kind of often, e.g.

Miss, did you know Venusian Artist is a right little alchy? :p
Miss, Venusian Artist has his mobile on :p
Miss, Venusian Artist has his PSP with him :p

etc. etc. Not that any of that is very important I just felt like mentioning it. Still eye contact from her end as long as I keep mine, which I tend not to break. She seems to flirt with some of her mates but I don't know if it's just the way she is to them, she seems to be that way. Only to her closest friends I mean, like her best mates... So kino directed to anybody else wouldn't fall under this.

Anyway, tell me what ya think :)
 
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Dannyrt34 said:
is it just me or does this post make no sense whatsoever?
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I'm just stuck on where I am at with this girl, I don't know if it sounds obvious to you but it's been harder to work out than you might think.

I'm just going through a few situations with her with you, and seeing if anyone can explain and point certain things out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Quit pvssy-footing around and ask her out!! What else can we tell you???

If a girl rubs my back - I'm taking that as a "go"!!
 
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