"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help, I am in a date situation

Dhoulmagus

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My fraternity is having a date party and I really want to go because I like the theme and I don't have **** to do this week. My only issue is that I do not have a date. Usually I ask somebody else to hook me up with a date, but they usually flake or are ***** dates. It's better than nothing though. My other option is some girl I was hooking up with that I went NC on because she flaked on me to come over like 3 weeks ago.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dhoulmagus said:
My other option is some girl I was hooking up with that I went NC on because she flaked on me to come over like 3 weeks ago.
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Curious as to why you NC her. NC is over prescribed....its main utility is NOT for punishment. So many guys lose out on girls that ARE interested because they listen to some stupid rule like "If she EVER FLAKES YOU HAVE TO GO NC". If you want to take this girl(I assume you do or else you wouldnt have brought her up) id text her an inside joke or something, exchange 2-3 texts then ask what shes up to that day. If shes free ask to the party.

1.) If shes busy just respond with "k" and leave it at that.

2.) If she brings up you going NC, just respond "Been busy."

Also what Uncharted said. Its fvcking college dude.
 
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I got hooked up with a girl, but if she flakes nc girl is backup
 
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