"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help, I am in a date situation

Dhoulmagus

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My fraternity is having a date party and I really want to go because I like the theme and I don't have **** to do this week. My only issue is that I do not have a date. Usually I ask somebody else to hook me up with a date, but they usually flake or are ***** dates. It's better than nothing though. My other option is some girl I was hooking up with that I went NC on because she flaked on me to come over like 3 weeks ago.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dhoulmagus said:
My other option is some girl I was hooking up with that I went NC on because she flaked on me to come over like 3 weeks ago.
Curious as to why you NC her. NC is over prescribed....its main utility is NOT for punishment. So many guys lose out on girls that ARE interested because they listen to some stupid rule like "If she EVER FLAKES YOU HAVE TO GO NC". If you want to take this girl(I assume you do or else you wouldnt have brought her up) id text her an inside joke or something, exchange 2-3 texts then ask what shes up to that day. If shes free ask to the party.

1.) If shes busy just respond with "k" and leave it at that.

2.) If she brings up you going NC, just respond "Been busy."

Also what Uncharted said. Its fvcking college dude.
 

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I got hooked up with a girl, but if she flakes nc girl is backup
 
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