"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help, I am in a date situation

Dhoulmagus

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My fraternity is having a date party and I really want to go because I like the theme and I don't have **** to do this week. My only issue is that I do not have a date. Usually I ask somebody else to hook me up with a date, but they usually flake or are ***** dates. It's better than nothing though. My other option is some girl I was hooking up with that I went NC on because she flaked on me to come over like 3 weeks ago.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dhoulmagus said:
My other option is some girl I was hooking up with that I went NC on because she flaked on me to come over like 3 weeks ago.
Curious as to why you NC her. NC is over prescribed....its main utility is NOT for punishment. So many guys lose out on girls that ARE interested because they listen to some stupid rule like "If she EVER FLAKES YOU HAVE TO GO NC". If you want to take this girl(I assume you do or else you wouldnt have brought her up) id text her an inside joke or something, exchange 2-3 texts then ask what shes up to that day. If shes free ask to the party.

1.) If shes busy just respond with "k" and leave it at that.

2.) If she brings up you going NC, just respond "Been busy."

Also what Uncharted said. Its fvcking college dude.
 

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I got hooked up with a girl, but if she flakes nc girl is backup
 
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