Tedhe
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 12, 2016
- Messages
- 68
- Reaction score
- 11
- Age
- 39
Hi Guys,
Would love to get your thoughts on this one - I have been working a tough one over the past few weeks (I also have others on the go) I must admit this girl is pretty hot and has a personality to match - a 9.5/10 on both - also has a potential of being a low grade crazy....which I am ok with...only looking to have something real, casual and fun with this one.
Anyhow - Iv hung out with this girl informally a few times, fooled around a bit - but whenever I ask her out to meet on a formal date she agrees, but bails the day of. I got fed up with this and ghosted her for about 1.5 weeks - I saw her again after that and ended up having a really long personal conversation with her - we decided on hanging out for sushi at my place after I came back from the cottage.
Fast forward to after this weekend
I messaged her ("Hey you, what's up? ) on Monday night and just got a response back the next day in the afternoon ("Hey sorry I forgot to get back to you, what's up?)
Which was surprisingly cold in my opinion.
This girl does get a lot of attention and is the queen of hot and cold, I know for a fact the things she likes about me is I don't really show her how attractive she is, and tend to keep things chill and charming (she loves my charming side)
How do I respond to this one? With humor, charm, etc? The reason for the hesitation is I have been put in this spot before and want to try something different instead of just asking
Thoughts?
Would love to get your thoughts on this one - I have been working a tough one over the past few weeks (I also have others on the go) I must admit this girl is pretty hot and has a personality to match - a 9.5/10 on both - also has a potential of being a low grade crazy....which I am ok with...only looking to have something real, casual and fun with this one.
Anyhow - Iv hung out with this girl informally a few times, fooled around a bit - but whenever I ask her out to meet on a formal date she agrees, but bails the day of. I got fed up with this and ghosted her for about 1.5 weeks - I saw her again after that and ended up having a really long personal conversation with her - we decided on hanging out for sushi at my place after I came back from the cottage.
Fast forward to after this weekend
I messaged her ("Hey you, what's up? ) on Monday night and just got a response back the next day in the afternoon ("Hey sorry I forgot to get back to you, what's up?)
Which was surprisingly cold in my opinion.
This girl does get a lot of attention and is the queen of hot and cold, I know for a fact the things she likes about me is I don't really show her how attractive she is, and tend to keep things chill and charming (she loves my charming side)
How do I respond to this one? With humor, charm, etc? The reason for the hesitation is I have been put in this spot before and want to try something different instead of just asking
Thoughts?