mars_needs_women
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Okay heres the story. This is lengthy, but Im totally confused here.
I met this girl online through mutual freinds. I saw her at a club exactly 2 weeks ago on the 27th.
I talked to her and just chatted with her abotu her outfit and her hair. I remembered to hold eye contact and I played with her hair. I got a smile.
She left the club and came back. I was sittign with my freinds and in she walks. There jaws drop and I said "oh yeah shes mine?." One of myf reinds was a nay sayer and started talkign poo. So I called her name rooom across the room and told her to come here. Aksed if she liked my sweater. She said "Its soft!" Stroked it, played with my hair, smiled, turned around ina super girly fashion and walked off. I did not chase her and actualyl said Hi to this other girl across the room.
So I e-mailed her online and told her I found out something about her thats interesting. This peaked her interest and she eventually relinqushed her phone number without me asking.
She spins records in this all girl DJ crew and told me to come up to this mall where she was playing at. I met her there and I bsuted on her and held eye contact.
At one point I looked her dead in her big blue eyes, she put her finger on her lip, looked down and away and twisted her foot.
I told her I was leaving and she gave me a big hug and I said "I'll call you." She says, "I dont have your number." I said, "No..Ill call YOU."
She messaged me and told her she didnt have a way to get a hold of me. So I busted on her and said "You're all about trying to get my number, arent you?" and didnt give it to her.
She messaged me the next day and asked if I was working. (I was)
So I told her me and my boys play pool every monday. I messaged her my number and she messaged me back on my phoen saying "Now I can block it." I said "You're loss not mine." and she replied with "Whatever!"
She messaged me on my phone with an interesting mesage abotu how she "has no one to cuddle with int he thunderstorms and feels depressed during them." I busted on her and said "Are you inviting me over to cuddle?" She responds with " You wish!"
She made sure I didnt forget about pool on Monday and met me on Monday. It was great, i busted on her all night. She kept bumping into the pool table with her cue and I told her that "that pool table didnt do anythign to you, leave it alone." She had no idea how to play and I stopped helping her just to be an ass.
She had to leave I walked her out and she said "I had ALOT of fun!." and got a BIG hug.
She messaged me the next day on my phone wanting to know if I was off. I had to work. But we kept messaging back and forth. Told her I was off wednesday. No messages...no calls.
I caleld her the next day and said "I had alot fo fun on Monday hanging out with you. I knwo my shcedules kind of busy but I would like to hang out wiht you again real soon. I know something real fun we can do on Saturday."
She called once, I didnt answer and she left no voicemail. She called again later and asked what I had mind. Told her it was a surprise. She was willinf to adjust her schedule to hang out.
Today...talked to her online and asked her if she had to work saturday. She said "Well, just call me."
Then she messages me on my phone later with "Do you think you can hire a hitman for yourself?" I busted on her and got no response.
No heres where Im at a loss.
Should I have kissed her on the monday we played pool? I regret not doing so.
And whats with all the high intrest and then "Well just call me." But messaging me later? She must have been thinking about me.
We dont message back and forth anymore and only talk, once every other day and I make it a point to keep it short.
Have I waited to long and missed my window of oppurtunity? This girls awesome. And I will run into her alot in the future since we have such mutual freinds. She was really interested and now, im not sure or maybe she is just testing me and playing games
Help me fellas.
I met this girl online through mutual freinds. I saw her at a club exactly 2 weeks ago on the 27th.
I talked to her and just chatted with her abotu her outfit and her hair. I remembered to hold eye contact and I played with her hair. I got a smile.
She left the club and came back. I was sittign with my freinds and in she walks. There jaws drop and I said "oh yeah shes mine?." One of myf reinds was a nay sayer and started talkign poo. So I called her name rooom across the room and told her to come here. Aksed if she liked my sweater. She said "Its soft!" Stroked it, played with my hair, smiled, turned around ina super girly fashion and walked off. I did not chase her and actualyl said Hi to this other girl across the room.
So I e-mailed her online and told her I found out something about her thats interesting. This peaked her interest and she eventually relinqushed her phone number without me asking.
She spins records in this all girl DJ crew and told me to come up to this mall where she was playing at. I met her there and I bsuted on her and held eye contact.
At one point I looked her dead in her big blue eyes, she put her finger on her lip, looked down and away and twisted her foot.
I told her I was leaving and she gave me a big hug and I said "I'll call you." She says, "I dont have your number." I said, "No..Ill call YOU."
She messaged me and told her she didnt have a way to get a hold of me. So I busted on her and said "You're all about trying to get my number, arent you?" and didnt give it to her.
She messaged me the next day and asked if I was working. (I was)
So I told her me and my boys play pool every monday. I messaged her my number and she messaged me back on my phoen saying "Now I can block it." I said "You're loss not mine." and she replied with "Whatever!"
She messaged me on my phone with an interesting mesage abotu how she "has no one to cuddle with int he thunderstorms and feels depressed during them." I busted on her and said "Are you inviting me over to cuddle?" She responds with " You wish!"
She made sure I didnt forget about pool on Monday and met me on Monday. It was great, i busted on her all night. She kept bumping into the pool table with her cue and I told her that "that pool table didnt do anythign to you, leave it alone." She had no idea how to play and I stopped helping her just to be an ass.
She had to leave I walked her out and she said "I had ALOT of fun!." and got a BIG hug.
She messaged me the next day on my phone wanting to know if I was off. I had to work. But we kept messaging back and forth. Told her I was off wednesday. No messages...no calls.
I caleld her the next day and said "I had alot fo fun on Monday hanging out with you. I knwo my shcedules kind of busy but I would like to hang out wiht you again real soon. I know something real fun we can do on Saturday."
She called once, I didnt answer and she left no voicemail. She called again later and asked what I had mind. Told her it was a surprise. She was willinf to adjust her schedule to hang out.
Today...talked to her online and asked her if she had to work saturday. She said "Well, just call me."
Then she messages me on my phone later with "Do you think you can hire a hitman for yourself?" I busted on her and got no response.
No heres where Im at a loss.
Should I have kissed her on the monday we played pool? I regret not doing so.
And whats with all the high intrest and then "Well just call me." But messaging me later? She must have been thinking about me.
We dont message back and forth anymore and only talk, once every other day and I make it a point to keep it short.
Have I waited to long and missed my window of oppurtunity? This girls awesome. And I will run into her alot in the future since we have such mutual freinds. She was really interested and now, im not sure or maybe she is just testing me and playing games
Help me fellas.