"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I call her early today and got voicemail I told her that I was sorry I didnt mean to ignore you, I was just surprise. now what.


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Her: R u just trying to b Friends or what?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gangster Of Love

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You're getting caught up into all of this whole chick drama. Let her act and be a woman; don't get caught up in all that.

The fact that you are putting too much emphazis on this one tells that you are not prepared to deal with that level/caliber chick (whatever type she might be).

She doesn't want to deal with a woman. She's got her girlfriends for that. Sack it up and decide what you want, make your move, and be prepared to next her ass if needed, and move on to the next conquest.
 

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ah I dont wanna **** up and get in the friends zone. ah going for it!
 

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I dont know it was inner afc fukc I apologize because I didnt acknowledge her and she was pretty mad, for like 4 days.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And this is your problem because........?

Stop caring so much man, it really, really helps. =)
 

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Actually, the only chance you got at this point is by ignoring her, on purpose. I know, not the best advice, but you have dug yourself into a hole, and it might take something like ignoring her for a little bit to get her off of the pedestal you have made her think she's in.
 

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Just call her and act like nothing happened, keep it short, and set up a time to get together. Don't respond to DTR questions; show her your intentions when you put the moves on her.
 
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