"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I call her early today and got voicemail I told her that I was sorry I didnt mean to ignore you, I was just surprise. now what.


Text:
Her: R u just trying to b Friends or what?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gangster Of Love

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You're getting caught up into all of this whole chick drama. Let her act and be a woman; don't get caught up in all that.

The fact that you are putting too much emphazis on this one tells that you are not prepared to deal with that level/caliber chick (whatever type she might be).

She doesn't want to deal with a woman. She's got her girlfriends for that. Sack it up and decide what you want, make your move, and be prepared to next her ass if needed, and move on to the next conquest.
 

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ah I dont wanna **** up and get in the friends zone. ah going for it!
 

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I dont know it was inner afc fukc I apologize because I didnt acknowledge her and she was pretty mad, for like 4 days.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And this is your problem because........?

Stop caring so much man, it really, really helps. =)
 

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Actually, the only chance you got at this point is by ignoring her, on purpose. I know, not the best advice, but you have dug yourself into a hole, and it might take something like ignoring her for a little bit to get her off of the pedestal you have made her think she's in.
 

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Just call her and act like nothing happened, keep it short, and set up a time to get together. Don't respond to DTR questions; show her your intentions when you put the moves on her.
 
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