"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help Guys!...Looking To Buy A Home!! Know Any Good Resources For Real Estate???

Ken785

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Need help ASAP!!

Im looking to spend about $350,000 on a nice home in California. East bay if you wanna be specific. Do any of you guys know any good websites or places to look?? Im looking for the perfect home for around that price. Thanks guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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$350,000 budget for a house anywhere in Cali means you are either A) Buying a fixer that needs major work, or B) living in a gang-infested sh-thole.

I think you better up your budget a bit.

You can check zillow.com to get a general idea of what homes are going for in a given neighborhood. But still, $350,000 sounds pretty unrealistic for the Bay Area. Good luck.
 

Ken785

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speakeasy said:
$350,000 budget for a house anywhere in Cali means you are either A) Buying a fixer that needs major work, or B) living in a gang-infested sh-thole.

I think you better up your budget a bit.

You can check zillow.com to get a general idea of what homes are going for in a given neighborhood. But still, $350,000 sounds pretty unrealistic for the Bay Area. Good luck.
I dont think you live in Cali...i live small town area...full of trailer trash, 30 year old high school "jocks" still living in the past, and panhandlers...

Imagine that town from that movie "Just Friends" with Ryan Reynolds and Amy Smart. Thats How crappy my town is.

But there are still nice areas and real estate has dropped tremendously in the last year...what was $700,000 2 story 5 bd/3 bath built in 2005 is now about $350,000.
 

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I was thinking about this,

Since the economy is so crappy would buying a house NOW be a good thing? I thought it was bad to buy a house now. I am not looking in selling either once I buy the house.
 

Ken785

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j0n024 said:
I was thinking about this,

Since the economy is so crappy would buying a house NOW be a good thing? I thought it was bad to buy a house now. I am not looking in selling either once I buy the house.
Not for investors, buy low...economy goes back up then sell high.

If your talking about job risk, theres no worry...parents have their own business.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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