"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help. Going to be studying with a girl I am interested in. any advice?

evasive

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I'm about to go to a coffee shop to meet up with a girl, and study for our midterm coming up.
I've only talked to her a couple times in class, but she was enthusiastic to study with me.

So how do get her attracted? How to build sexual tension?

Anyone have tips?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ARrocket

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Well, all I can say is lots of flirting! Tease her playfully, touch her, be funny and charming....
 
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Let her know your romantic interest right away -- after studying invite her on a date to do something fun.
 
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