"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help. Going to be studying with a girl I am interested in. any advice?

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I'm about to go to a coffee shop to meet up with a girl, and study for our midterm coming up.
I've only talked to her a couple times in class, but she was enthusiastic to study with me.

So how do get her attracted? How to build sexual tension?

Anyone have tips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, all I can say is lots of flirting! Tease her playfully, touch her, be funny and charming....
 
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Let her know your romantic interest right away -- after studying invite her on a date to do something fun.
 
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