"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solomon

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Yeah you're at a disadvantage if you go for white women.

White women are the least likely to date outside their race, and women of color are more likely to date white men than any other race.

It sucks, but it's the way it is.

You need to outwork your competition. I've f*cked women that have never been with an asian guy before and have never considered being with an asian guy before.
Yo Asian lover whats your diet and work out routine like mayn?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One of the prettiest girls I ever knew stayed at my house for a week. Tall with blonde hair and blue eyes. She wouldn't let me touch her because she only dated black men. She ended up married to a black man and had his children. Her sister (married to my best friend who is also white) then eloped with a black man in Vegas. Many other girls I dated had a thing for black men too.

Everyone has a type that they are attracted to. You'll be much happier if you find someone for whom you are their type.

Also, what's wrong with dating black women? I dated a black woman who had the softest skin I ever felt by a factor of 3.
 

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Solomon said:
Yo Asian lover whats your diet and work out routine like mayn?
I cycle my diet. I eat clean for 3 days, have a cheat day, then repeat. Weights 5 days a week.

Cardio is my weakness. Back when I trained boxing and BJJ I was pretty ripped, but now I'm more bulky, big arms and love handles.
 
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