"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Solomon

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Yeah you're at a disadvantage if you go for white women.

White women are the least likely to date outside their race, and women of color are more likely to date white men than any other race.

It sucks, but it's the way it is.

You need to outwork your competition. I've f*cked women that have never been with an asian guy before and have never considered being with an asian guy before.
Yo Asian lover whats your diet and work out routine like mayn?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One of the prettiest girls I ever knew stayed at my house for a week. Tall with blonde hair and blue eyes. She wouldn't let me touch her because she only dated black men. She ended up married to a black man and had his children. Her sister (married to my best friend who is also white) then eloped with a black man in Vegas. Many other girls I dated had a thing for black men too.

Everyone has a type that they are attracted to. You'll be much happier if you find someone for whom you are their type.

Also, what's wrong with dating black women? I dated a black woman who had the softest skin I ever felt by a factor of 3.
 

TheAsianLoverReturns

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Solomon said:
Yo Asian lover whats your diet and work out routine like mayn?
I cycle my diet. I eat clean for 3 days, have a cheat day, then repeat. Weights 5 days a week.

Cardio is my weakness. Back when I trained boxing and BJJ I was pretty ripped, but now I'm more bulky, big arms and love handles.
 
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