"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help finding e-book (How to Become an Alpha Male) *Alexander*

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Is there a free E-book or did everybody buy it? I really don't feel like buying the book because frankly I don't need it that much, I just want to see what it has in it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Karma have you read it ? Just curious because i have that book but i dont know if it worth reading it .
I've read it. It's good. I'm a speed-reader though, and have read a bunch of crap too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's NOT worth reading.
I've read it because ive seen an advertizement online "do absolutely nothing, and sleep with 20+ women per month with zero effort"

So i clicked on the link as fast as I could, ordered the book, read it... it made things worse than before I read it.
 

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Pirating and freely distributing copy-written material is a symptom of why some of you guys are here and crying about how bad you are with women. You are compromising your self-respect by doing this, and you don't even know it. That's why you're offended by my calling you on it.

Stop stealing and earn your possessions, and you will take your first step toward becoming an alpha man.
 

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Bonafide said:
Uh...Sun Tzu, having a bad day?
No, I'm having a great day! I played an awesome gig last night with my band and got the phone number of an incredible woman. She called me today and we had a great conversation.

Thanks for asking!

You see, my original comments cannot be interpreted accurately by wondering if I'm in a bad mood. That is an incredibly simplistic thought process on your part which protects you from examining yourself and your motives. That is precisely why you don't have enough self-respect to pay for your possessions like a man. You cannot understand that the very mechanism that drives you to steal income from another man is the same mechanism that prevents you from handling your relationships with yourself and with women. Again, you are currently incapable of understanding this right now. I write it in the hope of planting a seed that will eventually mean something to you as you learn and start to understand yourself. Just some tough love, brother. You will recognize it as such someday.
 

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Bonafide said:
Is there a free E-book or did everybody buy it? I really don't feel like buying the book because frankly I don't need it that much, I just want to see what it has in it.
By the way, contrary to what you say, you do need the book, because it talks about the fact that a man pays for what he owns, lives an honest life, and does not steal from others.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sun Tzu said:
By the way, contrary to what you say, you do need the book, because it talks about the fact that a man pays for what he owns, lives an honest life, and does not steal from others.


Oh ok, thanks dad, so why dont you buy it for me? Since your so concerned with me & this book.


I understand where your coming from, but I really don't give a **** about what you have to say.
 

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And since I do need this book so much, im not paying for the book because I need it. The reason im not paying? I am not a man yet. However, once I do get the book... I will then start paying because I will then have read the content. Hahahah.



But in all seriousness... I understand you bro, and I know what your saying is true... but I'm not buying that book. I really dont need it at all...I would like to have it just to see what it contains but if I cant get it' it isn't the end of the world.
 

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Now that our sparring match seems to be over, for what it's worth, the book has some merit for a newbie to the community. There is nothing in it that is earth-shattering, but it's a good primer for understanding what is required to be a well-rounded man. I put in on par with Xuma's alpha man book. Both serve a similar purpose. For me, it was money well spent.
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Bonafide...Firstly, there's no need to be harsh about this, and Sun Tzu IS trying to help you here, and also makes a valid point, I dont mind sending you the book, but take Sun's point to heart.
SS, thanks for the support.

Just a suggestion... If you decline sending the book out, you will take a quantum leap into becoming a man of integrity, even at the tender age of 14. That decision would benefit you the rest of your life, even though it might seem trivial to you right now.

Just something to think about... Again, I think you for the support.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sun, are you afraid that you're going to have some competition if I get the book? :crackup:

Lol no. I mean, why are you trying to stop me from achieving what were all on this board for?

Like X said, by any means necessary! :cuss:


SS, it would be great if you could send it to me. It's not going to affect you as a "man" maybe to Sun... but that is if you really give a **** about what Sun thinks about you.

Hey Sun are you really 50 by the way?
 

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Sun Tzu said:
You see, my original comments cannot be interpreted accurately by wondering if I'm in a bad mood. That is an incredibly simplistic thought process on your part which protects you from examining yourself and your motives. That is precisely why you don't have enough self-respect to pay for your possessions like a man. You cannot understand that the very mechanism that drives you to steal income from another man is the same mechanism that prevents you from handling your relationships with yourself and with women. Again, you are currently incapable of understanding this right now. I write it in the hope of planting a seed that will eventually mean something to you as you learn and start to understand yourself. Just some tough love, brother. You will recognize it as such someday.
Being a man has nothing to do with piracy, but being in complete control over yourself and thus having no ego. I understand people from your generation feel the need to feel righteous about certain things, but the newer generation grew up with information right at their finger tips. There are hundreds of bittorrent, newsgroup, filesharing sites that don't promote piracy but promotes sharing. Now, the problem with sharing today is the widespread accessibility of the internet. A complete stranger can "lend" you a book, without ever speaking to you. But the whole point to it is the "give a penny take a penny" motto. Now somewhere along the line, someone did indeed buy the product, but he shared it with his friend, who in turn shared it with his friend. The biggest problem is the duplication of a product, which in the end hurts the sellers. The people that have morals, however, should treat it as if they're just trying before buying. In the end it all depends on what you're willing to sacrifice for knowledge. I know I may not be making sense to you now, but hopefully someday you will understand.
 

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LOL, you are so severely under-armed for a battle of wits with me that I can't possibly bloody you up in such a battle. It would be a massacre.

I will say this, though: In America we value rule-of-law. Copyright laws exist to protect authors from theft. If you had the wherewithal to publish a written work, you most certainly would avail yourself of the law in order to protect your investment.

What is your line of work? If you were a salesman, would you appreciate it if I moved in on your territory and "borrowed" some of your customers? If you owned a hardware store, would you be offended if I needed a circular saw and just walked in and took one?

The law recognizes what you are trying to defend as "theft". "The people who have morals" (your phrase) respect the law and refrain from making up silly principals to justify their desire to acquire knowledge and possessions without paying for them.
 

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Sun Tzu said:
LOL, you are so severely under-armed for a battle of wits with me that I can't possibly bloody you up in such a battle. It would be a massacre.

I will say this, though: In America we value rule-of-law. Copyright laws exist to protect authors from theft. If you had the wherewithal to publish a written work, you most certainly would avail yourself of the law in order to protect your investment.

What is your line of work? If you were a salesman, would you appreciate it if I moved in on your territory and "borrowed" some of your customers? If you owned a hardware store, would you be offended if I needed a circular saw and just walked in and took one?

The law recognizes what you are trying to defend as "theft". "The people who have morals" (your phrase) respect the law and refrain from making up silly principals to justify their desire to acquire knowledge and possessions without paying for them.
And I'm sure you've never run a red light, smoked a joint, "forgot" to put change in the meter and promised not to cvm in her mouth.

You're a fvcking opportunist just like everyone else. Now jump down from your fvcking pedestal and practice what you preach. Oh wait, just like every other hypocritical self-righteous Republican you won't back up your bullsh!t. It's ok to break some laws but follow others to the death? How fvcked up you are.

If I have the cleverness to "borrow" anything then I'm going to fvcking do it and do it without any regard. You think you're better because you've "stolen" Sun Tzu's name to fraudulently masquerade yourself as a guru, let me be the first to knock you the fvck out. You're nothing and noone. You're a guy (possibly) who spouts some sh!t to a bunch of other guys just like me and just like every other brother who logs into SoSuave. So please take your bleeding heart and go hug a fvcking tree.

Numbnutts aside, I'll add that I am a working artist and I cherish my work but if money were my goal in life I'd be better suited in commodities trading than the expression of my ideas and my perception of the world for people to learn from and enjoy.
 

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Karma, you're my man! (even though you keep hatin' on Supreme, lol)
Yep, you just got your capitalist a$$ put in your place, sun' huy v chai (= "put **** into tea", in Russian, as a derogatory term for a mongoloid). Besides, that prick John Alexander did not INVENT anything, or come up with some incredible revelation... he took a bunch of stuff that's been said and done, made a nice little bull$hit advertizement for it, and gullible ex-AFC's like me bought into his crap, and learned the hard way. And you are defending that prick, wow.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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