Okay so I've always looked thru other areas of the site but never made an account until now because I would like to get some clarity on this. I dated a girl (19) for about 6 months and at times I was always confused as to where she stood regarding me. Her parents were very strict so she always had to tell them she was with her best friend when she was with me, which got annoying because alot of the time her friend would hang out with us. She wouldn't mind making out in front of her friend even tho I did feel a little awkward in the beginning.I told her I wanted to spend time with just her and not the both of them, I said jokingly that I might as well be dating them both.She would get mad when I said that and get quiet and give me a look. Btw her and this friend were always together everyday all day. She would also talk bad about her friend to me about certain things her friend did that she felt her friend was jealous of her and copying her. she was always very flirty towards me. I don't really remember the beginning to well but we got to know each other over the next 2 months or so. We began texting daily all day and when I wouldn't respond right away because I was busy or at work she would catch a fit and start sending multiple messages not to ignore her. She also liked to display emotion and feelings thru text and not in person. Over some time I guess she got really attached to me but was afraid of showing it in person, certain things she did that I knew I had to end it and I would do so, she would get extremely depressed,crying, tagging me in memes about missing me. Her best friend would text me asking me what happened and after about a day I would cave in and everything would be back to normal. She would tell me she adores me and that she is falling in love with me and that she thought that she could never love again. Fast forward towards the end we both go on vacation separately me with my friends and her with her mom. We continue to keep a little contact but she was in another country so I simply ask her if she would like to talk when she gets back so she doesn't get a big bill. She says okay and I think all is well. I text her when she's back asking to see her and she says she doesn't think it's a good idea that I pushed her away. I tried explaining myself even apologized. Basically she broke up over text. I then cut all contact deleted her off social media and never spoke again. A mutual friend told me she has a new bf after two months and she is posting pics of them together online(she never mentioned our relationship online)which didn't bother me at all. I'm most likely forgetting a few things but I'll cliff some incidents that I encountered.
• no parental issues but she said her uncle molested her when she was young
•ex bf at the at the age of 15 used to force her to have sex and would hit her
•doesn't get along with her female cousins
•that girls at her job are envious of her and are against her
•went out one night she had been drinking previously, she started crying and punching the door of my car
• that she's afraid to lose her parents and gets depressed at times about it
• at a friends house together and she pointed a gun at me (friend was licensed to carry)
•very sexual in public
•extremely jealous of my female friends would get mad at me smoking a cigarette with a female coworker
• showing me all the messages guys send her on fb (she never responded to them as far as I know)
•she'd tell me how guys always hit on her when she was out
• wouldn't believe me when I told her she was beautiful
• mentions private details about sex life to her best friend
• randomly gets anxiety and doesn't know the cause
•used to ask me if I loved her even when I told her I did with out her asking (she wouldn't say it first)
•her idea to have sex with out a condom once, I went in for a little then put one on, wasn't trying to get her pregnant
•would send me tons of sexual pictures found on the Internet
•told me she had been throwing up in the mornings I ended up buying a pregnancy test to check
•she would joke about being pregnant to see my reaction
• she wouldn't go the see a movie with me because I had seen it already with my female cousin and brother
•whenever we would hang out it would be basically at her convince
•gave me hickeys in visible areas on purpose
• said I couldn't go on vacation with my friends and she has to talk to my friends about me going. I laughed and told her I'm going
There is definitely more but I'm just forgetting them at the moment.
• no parental issues but she said her uncle molested her when she was young
•ex bf at the at the age of 15 used to force her to have sex and would hit her
•doesn't get along with her female cousins
•that girls at her job are envious of her and are against her
•went out one night she had been drinking previously, she started crying and punching the door of my car
• that she's afraid to lose her parents and gets depressed at times about it
• at a friends house together and she pointed a gun at me (friend was licensed to carry)
•very sexual in public
•extremely jealous of my female friends would get mad at me smoking a cigarette with a female coworker
• showing me all the messages guys send her on fb (she never responded to them as far as I know)
•she'd tell me how guys always hit on her when she was out
• wouldn't believe me when I told her she was beautiful
• mentions private details about sex life to her best friend
• randomly gets anxiety and doesn't know the cause
•used to ask me if I loved her even when I told her I did with out her asking (she wouldn't say it first)
•her idea to have sex with out a condom once, I went in for a little then put one on, wasn't trying to get her pregnant
•would send me tons of sexual pictures found on the Internet
•told me she had been throwing up in the mornings I ended up buying a pregnancy test to check
•she would joke about being pregnant to see my reaction
• she wouldn't go the see a movie with me because I had seen it already with my female cousin and brother
•whenever we would hang out it would be basically at her convince
•gave me hickeys in visible areas on purpose
• said I couldn't go on vacation with my friends and she has to talk to my friends about me going. I laughed and told her I'm going
There is definitely more but I'm just forgetting them at the moment.