Okay I need I don't really see a post in for this in the bible if so can someone show me this alright. I'm good at aproaching and conversation but like I never know like how to like hook up with a girl or go further after the conversation. Like it's all going good than it just get akwardss then one of just excuses themselves and leave. See I don't know I go to parties and people just hook up so easily I don't know why I can't do it. I got a prom party this weekend and want to hook up with alot of girls since alot of people went stag how should I go about this? Thank you for any help
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
familyguyfan
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Yeah I'm the same way.
Sometimes in parties it works if you just say "You wanna take a walk" or "You wanna go somewhere else" or something to that effect, but that doesn't work in a lot of places. The situation I find the hardest is when you're just at someone's house with only a few other people. A lot of girls don't like hooking up in these situations because there's no way to hide it and everyone there would know they hooked up with someone. For example, one of my friends has a 2 room basement that I go to a lot, and we have girls over a fair amount, and I've flirted a lot with some of them, and if I had a way to initiate it I would've been able to hook up with them. But I couldn't because there were other people there. And the second room isn't great for it either, though it would do if the girl didn't mind other people knowing.
Sometimes in parties it works if you just say "You wanna take a walk" or "You wanna go somewhere else" or something to that effect, but that doesn't work in a lot of places. The situation I find the hardest is when you're just at someone's house with only a few other people. A lot of girls don't like hooking up in these situations because there's no way to hide it and everyone there would know they hooked up with someone. For example, one of my friends has a 2 room basement that I go to a lot, and we have girls over a fair amount, and I've flirted a lot with some of them, and if I had a way to initiate it I would've been able to hook up with them. But I couldn't because there were other people there. And the second room isn't great for it either, though it would do if the girl didn't mind other people knowing.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Do the " Wanna take a walk with me?" or better yet" Do U wann have the privelege of walking with me?"
You can walk almost anywhere, and it gives you some one on one time withthe chick.
You can walk almost anywhere, and it gives you some one on one time withthe chick.
Designed for college, works for HS too:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60342
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60342
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Speak to her, build up her interest in you, get close. You need to touch her, get her used to you touching her and other people seeing you touching her. (not sexually at first), then slowly escalate, you can always pull really cheesy moves like you are taking the p1ss (for example doing a big yawn and putting your arm around her).
Just escalate, start off small and go big. Asking her to go for a walk is difficult, but for example if she needs to get something, go with her (but not stalker like). TAKE any opportunity, volunteer to leave to pick up pizzas or something and get her to come along with you.
Just escalate, start off small and go big. Asking her to go for a walk is difficult, but for example if she needs to get something, go with her (but not stalker like). TAKE any opportunity, volunteer to leave to pick up pizzas or something and get her to come along with you.
read what we wrote. Escalate the tension, touch and stroke her more and more, so that she knows you want her, if she doesnt move away then escalate. To borrow a phrase "make the hoe say no". Escalate, Escalate, Escalate.Originally posted by DA KID
How would I go about getting her to do something like kissing for instance
Then look in towards her, if she looks back at you (especially if she angles her head a bit), then go in for the kiss.
If you have never kissed before, just remember, do lots of slow, chaste, lip kissing and then open your mouth slowly and breathe slightly into her mouth. If her lips open, dart your tongue in, cheekily lick the top of her lips. Then leave your mouth and see how she responds. While you are kissing her, run your hands all over her. AND NOT IN A SEXUAL WAY. Run your hands through her hair and down her back (these are as effective, probably more so than zooming straight on the tits). You want her aching for your touch.