Okay I need I don't really see a post in for this in the bible if so can someone show me this alright. I'm good at aproaching and conversation but like I never know like how to like hook up with a girl or go further after the conversation. Like it's all going good than it just get akwardss then one of just excuses themselves and leave. See I don't know I go to parties and people just hook up so easily I don't know why I can't do it. I got a prom party this weekend and want to hook up with alot of girls since alot of people went stag how should I go about this? Thank you for any help
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
familyguyfan
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Yeah I'm the same way.
Sometimes in parties it works if you just say "You wanna take a walk" or "You wanna go somewhere else" or something to that effect, but that doesn't work in a lot of places. The situation I find the hardest is when you're just at someone's house with only a few other people. A lot of girls don't like hooking up in these situations because there's no way to hide it and everyone there would know they hooked up with someone. For example, one of my friends has a 2 room basement that I go to a lot, and we have girls over a fair amount, and I've flirted a lot with some of them, and if I had a way to initiate it I would've been able to hook up with them. But I couldn't because there were other people there. And the second room isn't great for it either, though it would do if the girl didn't mind other people knowing.
Sometimes in parties it works if you just say "You wanna take a walk" or "You wanna go somewhere else" or something to that effect, but that doesn't work in a lot of places. The situation I find the hardest is when you're just at someone's house with only a few other people. A lot of girls don't like hooking up in these situations because there's no way to hide it and everyone there would know they hooked up with someone. For example, one of my friends has a 2 room basement that I go to a lot, and we have girls over a fair amount, and I've flirted a lot with some of them, and if I had a way to initiate it I would've been able to hook up with them. But I couldn't because there were other people there. And the second room isn't great for it either, though it would do if the girl didn't mind other people knowing.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Do the " Wanna take a walk with me?" or better yet" Do U wann have the privelege of walking with me?"
You can walk almost anywhere, and it gives you some one on one time withthe chick.
You can walk almost anywhere, and it gives you some one on one time withthe chick.
Designed for college, works for HS too:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60342
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60342
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Speak to her, build up her interest in you, get close. You need to touch her, get her used to you touching her and other people seeing you touching her. (not sexually at first), then slowly escalate, you can always pull really cheesy moves like you are taking the p1ss (for example doing a big yawn and putting your arm around her).
Just escalate, start off small and go big. Asking her to go for a walk is difficult, but for example if she needs to get something, go with her (but not stalker like). TAKE any opportunity, volunteer to leave to pick up pizzas or something and get her to come along with you.
Just escalate, start off small and go big. Asking her to go for a walk is difficult, but for example if she needs to get something, go with her (but not stalker like). TAKE any opportunity, volunteer to leave to pick up pizzas or something and get her to come along with you.
read what we wrote. Escalate the tension, touch and stroke her more and more, so that she knows you want her, if she doesnt move away then escalate. To borrow a phrase "make the hoe say no". Escalate, Escalate, Escalate.Originally posted by DA KID
How would I go about getting her to do something like kissing for instance
Then look in towards her, if she looks back at you (especially if she angles her head a bit), then go in for the kiss.
If you have never kissed before, just remember, do lots of slow, chaste, lip kissing and then open your mouth slowly and breathe slightly into her mouth. If her lips open, dart your tongue in, cheekily lick the top of her lips. Then leave your mouth and see how she responds. While you are kissing her, run your hands all over her. AND NOT IN A SEXUAL WAY. Run your hands through her hair and down her back (these are as effective, probably more so than zooming straight on the tits). You want her aching for your touch.