"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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help!don't know what to do

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dammybravo

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there is this girl that we have been friends for 4months,and i'm trying to get her as my girlfriend,but now she moved away,like she went to school..i've been down,since she was in distance from me,and i don't know what,cos i can't disturb her and i need to prove to her that i want to be more than a friend
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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YogurtSlinger

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I don't understand a d@mn word you just said. Why don't you worry more about english class than girls for a little while?
 
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eaglez1177

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Next her. You've been friends for 4 months and shes already moved away. Theres billions of more fish in the sea.
 
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ENIGMA16

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dammybravo said:
there is this girl that we have been friends for 4months,and i'm trying to get her as my girlfriend
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No you're not. If you were trying to "get her as your girlfriend" you wouldn't have ended up being friends with her for 4 months. You haven't tried at all.

Why didn't you try? Why did you befriend her instead of showing interest?

but now she moved away,like she went to school..i've been down,since she was in distance from me,and i don't know what,cos i can't disturb her and i need to prove to her that i want to be more than a friend
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1. You're friends
2. She doesn't even live by you anymore

You are not going to go anywhere with this. You're deep in the friend zone and you're not going to be able to get out. Either be content in being friends with her or move on. You won't go anywhere with this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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