"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dammybravo

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there is this girl that we have been friends for 4months,and i'm trying to get her as my girlfriend,but now she moved away,like she went to school..i've been down,since she was in distance from me,and i don't know what,cos i can't disturb her and i need to prove to her that i want to be more than a friend
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YogurtSlinger

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I don't understand a d@mn word you just said. Why don't you worry more about english class than girls for a little while?
 
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eaglez1177

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Next her. You've been friends for 4 months and shes already moved away. Theres billions of more fish in the sea.
 
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ENIGMA16

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dammybravo said:
there is this girl that we have been friends for 4months,and i'm trying to get her as my girlfriend
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No you're not. If you were trying to "get her as your girlfriend" you wouldn't have ended up being friends with her for 4 months. You haven't tried at all.

Why didn't you try? Why did you befriend her instead of showing interest?

but now she moved away,like she went to school..i've been down,since she was in distance from me,and i don't know what,cos i can't disturb her and i need to prove to her that i want to be more than a friend
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1. You're friends
2. She doesn't even live by you anymore

You are not going to go anywhere with this. You're deep in the friend zone and you're not going to be able to get out. Either be content in being friends with her or move on. You won't go anywhere with this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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