"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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help!don't know what to do

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dammybravo

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there is this girl that we have been friends for 4months,and i'm trying to get her as my girlfriend,but now she moved away,like she went to school..i've been down,since she was in distance from me,and i don't know what,cos i can't disturb her and i need to prove to her that i want to be more than a friend
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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YogurtSlinger

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I don't understand a d@mn word you just said. Why don't you worry more about english class than girls for a little while?
 
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eaglez1177

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Next her. You've been friends for 4 months and shes already moved away. Theres billions of more fish in the sea.
 
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ENIGMA16

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dammybravo said:
there is this girl that we have been friends for 4months,and i'm trying to get her as my girlfriend
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No you're not. If you were trying to "get her as your girlfriend" you wouldn't have ended up being friends with her for 4 months. You haven't tried at all.

Why didn't you try? Why did you befriend her instead of showing interest?

but now she moved away,like she went to school..i've been down,since she was in distance from me,and i don't know what,cos i can't disturb her and i need to prove to her that i want to be more than a friend
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1. You're friends
2. She doesn't even live by you anymore

You are not going to go anywhere with this. You're deep in the friend zone and you're not going to be able to get out. Either be content in being friends with her or move on. You won't go anywhere with this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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