I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes, don't forget the latter.Originally posted by 516
If its a fairly nice day as far as the weather, then try doing something outside for a bit. Most cities or towns have at least some romantic outdoors area where you 2 can hang out for a little while. Take a nice walk somewhere pretty or romantic, or if there is a big flower garden or canal, boardwalk, or some sort of park or trail or something that you can walk that would be nice. Also try doing something that is personalized and not so cookie-cutter. And then romantic dinner somehwere or if you maybe can cook for her and set up something romantic at your house or something. And of course hitting it at the end of the night.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by SheDevil
-back yard bon fire, make love under the stars.
-fire place (or candles), lots of pillows, music, your arms, kisses...
-Tell her you are taking her to your favorite restuarant, order pizza, wine, feed her in bed, naked. Then let her taste you for dessert.
-Show up at her classroom at last bell, tell 'the teacher' what a naughty boy you have been and ....um, you take it from here.
-Have a coworker slip a card on her desk, in it have a hotel key and write that you are waiting and all you have instore.
-Send her 11 roses, tell her she will have to work for the 12th.
Gifts from your heart and imagination are so much better then the store bought stuff.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.