HELP! Can't seal the deal...

[jack knife]

I'll keep it short.

There's a girl, we're both hot for each other. We've been talking to each other, hitting on each other, making moves on each other for a week now. But now she wants to call things off, because she wants to avoid drama with her friend who apparently still likes me (messed around with her a month ago, haven't kept in touch), but doesn't know the two of us are messing around.

So now I have one shot tomorrow to convince this girl not to cut things off.

She told me her head is in one place and her feelings are in another. My plan is to focus on her feelings and hope they win over her logic (shouldn't be hard). I really don't want to blow this though, so if anybody can give constructive input, I would greatly appreciate it.

 

[Tomatoes]

I dunno if my FR will help but i was in exactly the same kind of situation. Except it was her boyfriend she felt bad with rather than a friend.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106404

Have a look.


Dont play on her emotions as they are going to be split and its a waste of time....YOU NEED TO ACT FAST.

She is either scared about her mate finding out or losing intrest.

Make a move next time you see her....Isolate her and MAKE A MOVE.

Whats the worst that could happen???

Whats the best?

Compare them and then tell me its not worth it....

Apply lots of Kino....Play to her physical lust rather than emotions....Women need sex just like blokes.....Play that way and you can get in and "seal the deal".

Any questions?

Sarge On!

 

[Ace of Flames]

She told me her head is in one place

That one place needs to be in your lap.

 

[blinkwatt]

I would do something along the lines of saying to her, "Always do what YOU want in life,never settle for less" and I would lean in to kiss her. Seal the deal,if she wants it she will go for it.

 

[Lucas718]

Chicks are not logical, so trying to convince her by using logic is a waste of time. Chicks understand feelings. Talk about how great it feels when you are together and get her to agree with you.

 

[flexion_]

Don't waste your time trying to mess with her feelings (whatever that means).

Put her in a sexual state and make a move. Then see what happens.

 

[Lucas718]

Don't waste your time trying to mess with her feelings (whatever that means).

Put her in a sexual state and make a move. Then see what happens.

That's basically what I was trying to say, but couldn't come up with the right words.

My question for the original poster... if you have to convince someone to date you, is it really worth the effort?

 

[Local Celebrity]

I would do this, there are some great suggestions up there that will fit into this.

I would say "we both know the situation, you don't want to hurt your friend, I understand..but you can't deny your feelings for me." Then lightly whisper in her ear "..can you keep a secret?"

The make your move.

Just a random thought, do you think it's possible she's not comfortable enough with you right now, if her friend doesn't know, why would she suddenly call it off? Maybe she's just a good friend, but, just saying.

Good luck.

-LC

 

[jack knife]

Whew, well it's done and over with. Thanks for the input. If you guys are wondering about the outcome, she's coming over tonight :yes:

Eye contact and kino were my most used tools.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

have a threesome with those two sluts