“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Help answer this text pls.

Starrie

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First date tonight/last night. She came over and we fooled around, watched some TV. Shortly after leaving she sent the standard thanks-for-a-great-night message.

Two hours later she sends this: "OMG rude!!! You gave me hickies!!!"





IDK. Maybe, "Oops...good thing you don't work this week lol"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Uncharted

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Bro really? Lol. I wouldn't text back. Ask her out again in a few days. She will be over it and they will be gone.
 

DonJuanabe

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Over it? She is not upset; she is being playful. And don't apologize, even a little, or even in jest. Roll with it and promise her more.
 

visions

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you can reply with that text, or like uncharted said, you can wait and ask her out a couple days later
 

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Dude you're 26 years old, shouldn't even be giving a girl hickies let alone asking for approval on text replies.

I am yet to be convinced that there has ever been a magic text reply in any situation that has significantly increased a girl's attraction. There are however thousands of poor texts that will lower it. For this reason I think texting should be used sparingly; if however you feel as though you have to reply to her what you had was fine.

As Donjuanabe said she is just being playful so definitely don't apologise.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HeadLightsOn

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dub_g said:
Dude you're 26 years old, shouldn't even be giving a girl hickies let alone asking for approval on text replies.
:up:
 

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"you should see what I have planned for next time!"
 
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