"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Help an AFC. Girlfriend problem.

coke

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Ok, so bassically it goes like this.

Girlfriend left fb open and bassically i read most of the conversations.

In one of them she talks to a girl and tells her that one night she went with her roommate to some guys to eat. She lives in a college campus so bassically they were the next door neighbours. She told me that night that she was going to take a shower and than sleep.

Now, I know I am AFC, but the thing is I am so gelous that I think she might have lied to me because if she would've told me the truth I would probably go berzerk.

She is also a girl that I thing gets influenced easy and really cares about what other people so I am thinking that maybe she did this just so that her roommate would make have a good impression on here.

In all the other messages she doesn't talk with other boys or anything like that. A lot of guys are hitting on her, but she doesn't respond to that.

What should I do? Should I let it slide? We've been together for 2 years and I really care about her.

Help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Krueg

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She could of told you a white lie so she could hang out with her friends and not get you upset. Dont let your imagination run wild. If you think something isnt right, you will feel it in your gut. Sure theres tall-tale signs if a girl is cheating or something, but always listen to your gut. Dont start reading into everything and over analyzing sh!t.

Let it slide this time.
 

VladPatton

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Let it slide. You don't know 100% for sure she did anything sexual. However, keep an eye on her without her knowing. You don't have to call her out on anything, even if she cheats for sure and you find out. If that's the case you just end things. For now, keep cool.
 
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