"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help an AFC. Girlfriend problem.

coke

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Ok, so bassically it goes like this.

Girlfriend left fb open and bassically i read most of the conversations.

In one of them she talks to a girl and tells her that one night she went with her roommate to some guys to eat. She lives in a college campus so bassically they were the next door neighbours. She told me that night that she was going to take a shower and than sleep.

Now, I know I am AFC, but the thing is I am so gelous that I think she might have lied to me because if she would've told me the truth I would probably go berzerk.

She is also a girl that I thing gets influenced easy and really cares about what other people so I am thinking that maybe she did this just so that her roommate would make have a good impression on here.

In all the other messages she doesn't talk with other boys or anything like that. A lot of guys are hitting on her, but she doesn't respond to that.

What should I do? Should I let it slide? We've been together for 2 years and I really care about her.

Help.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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Krueg

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She could of told you a white lie so she could hang out with her friends and not get you upset. Dont let your imagination run wild. If you think something isnt right, you will feel it in your gut. Sure theres tall-tale signs if a girl is cheating or something, but always listen to your gut. Dont start reading into everything and over analyzing sh!t.

Let it slide this time.
 

VladPatton

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Let it slide. You don't know 100% for sure she did anything sexual. However, keep an eye on her without her knowing. You don't have to call her out on anything, even if she cheats for sure and you find out. If that's the case you just end things. For now, keep cool.
 
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