"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help an AFC. Girlfriend problem.

coke

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Ok, so bassically it goes like this.

Girlfriend left fb open and bassically i read most of the conversations.

In one of them she talks to a girl and tells her that one night she went with her roommate to some guys to eat. She lives in a college campus so bassically they were the next door neighbours. She told me that night that she was going to take a shower and than sleep.

Now, I know I am AFC, but the thing is I am so gelous that I think she might have lied to me because if she would've told me the truth I would probably go berzerk.

She is also a girl that I thing gets influenced easy and really cares about what other people so I am thinking that maybe she did this just so that her roommate would make have a good impression on here.

In all the other messages she doesn't talk with other boys or anything like that. A lot of guys are hitting on her, but she doesn't respond to that.

What should I do? Should I let it slide? We've been together for 2 years and I really care about her.

Help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Krueg

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She could of told you a white lie so she could hang out with her friends and not get you upset. Dont let your imagination run wild. If you think something isnt right, you will feel it in your gut. Sure theres tall-tale signs if a girl is cheating or something, but always listen to your gut. Dont start reading into everything and over analyzing sh!t.

Let it slide this time.
 

VladPatton

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Let it slide. You don't know 100% for sure she did anything sexual. However, keep an eye on her without her knowing. You don't have to call her out on anything, even if she cheats for sure and you find out. If that's the case you just end things. For now, keep cool.
 
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