"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys
There's this girl in my class, we really got along well in the beginning (she responded well to C+F and some light kino) but this few days shes been more quiet kinda acting disinterested, and kept saying she "hates" me which I dont believe. She said I was annoying. Well I know I really shouldnt care but whats ur opinion on this one? Is it possible that I justtook too long to ask her out or she got jealous?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's her body language like when she says this?
 
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AlwaysSmile said:
but this few days shes been more quiet kinda acting disinterested, and kept saying she "hates" me which I dont believe. She said I was annoying.
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You need to start neggin her. She saying something like that is like a subconcious reaction begging for you to "put her in her place" for her to surrender to you.

From my experience when a woman says something mean out of nowhere it's usually a test to see if you got ballz to hit them back with something. if you do then you are getting closer to the win.
 
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AlwaysSmile said:
Is it possible that I justtook too long to ask her out or she got jealous?
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Jealous of what? If you had another few chics you were talking to and sparking up some stuff with you wouldn't even had made this thread because you would have had other chics you can go talk to than some bratty chic who probably is full of herself as it is. Be cool chill out and stay busy with other girls, she'll quickly notice and could open up more later if not who gives a ****?
 
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f283000 said:
You need to start neggin her. She saying something like that is like a subconcious reaction begging for you to "put her in her place" for her to surrender to you.

From my experience when a woman says something mean out of nowhere it's usually a test to see if you got ballz to hit them back with something. if you do then you are getting closer to the win.
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No, please do NOT neg her...if you start insulting her out of the blue she will probably stop talking to you. You pass a woman's tests by not taking them seriously.

For example:
Girl: "I hate you."
You: "Well, girls either love me or hate me! I'm glad I have you all figured out :p"

Sometimes this so-called "playful comeback" can come in the form of a neg, but if you're having trouble with a girl saying she hates you, I wouldn't expect you to know how to properly use a neg. I am by no means an expert on negs. I've negged women and it hasn't worked the majority of the time, but I have had a small success rate. Thanks Igetit ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in the Mood said:
No, please do NOT neg her...if you start insulting her out of the blue she will probably stop talking to you. You pass a woman's tests by not taking them seriously.

For example:
Girl: "I hate you."
You: "Well, girls either love me or hate me! I'm glad I have you all figured out :p"

Sometimes this so-called "playful comeback" can come in the form of a neg, but if you're having trouble with a girl saying she hates you, I wouldn't expect you to know how to properly use a neg. I am by no means an expert on negs. I've negged women and it hasn't worked the majority of the time, but I have had a small success rate. Thanks Igetit ;)
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Lol I'm gonna use that one :D. I think I need to sit back and be more playful. She does see me talk to some girls and stuff and shes always nervous and weird around me. Also, if it matters shes a bit of an attention *****, so I think she's used to getting all the attention
 
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"Well, girls either love me or hate me! I'm glad I have you all figured out :p"
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Lol it took me a couple mins to come up with that one. If you're in state around her it will come naturally and you will have fun!

Just remember...if you're trying to talk to her and she's being a loser by calling you annoying, STOP talking to her and start a conversation with another friend. The PU term for this is "not accepting second class behavior."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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