"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey. First off, let me introduce myself. I'm 17, living in New York, and enjoying life for the most part. I've been following some of this and it's helped me greatly. However, I have a problem. My girlfriend is a virgin, and so am I. I'm looking to change that, problem is, I'm not sure how. She thinks I've had experience with sex, because I've told her I have. See, until recently, I was ashamed to admit the fact that I was still a virgin, and everyone believes me since I am an attractive looking guy; but I've decided that telling people I'm not, isn't going to change anything. So, progress with her has been going... fairly decent I suppose. I've been up her shirt and just last weekend, she attempted to give me a hand job. Problem is, her mom walked in on us while both of us had our shirts off and she was just about to make some contact. Somehow, her mom didn't notice. Now, I'm dying to have sex with her already, and I'm trying to speed the progress along, although so far, hasn't been working. I'm not sure if I should admit that I'm still a virgin to her or not, and I'm also not sure how to make some progress, while still making her feel comfortable.

Thanks in advance for any help, I'm in desperate need of it. And I'm looking forward to learning more skills from all of you.

- The Greek Charmer
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being a virgin isn't a "problem" so I wouldn't worry much about it. Don't rush it but if you do tell het, I'm sure she'll understand. She might be even more comfortable with you since you would both be virgins.
 
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i would advise you to not read about sex in dj bible
because you would be constantly thinking about those rules and strategies when you will have sex for the first time there a great chance your gf wont even be satisfied no matter how many posts you memorized!

Just dont forget to
Have a good time
Use a Condom! (even when she is taking the pill)
dont think about it too much
stop when she wants to!
 
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