"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey. First off, let me introduce myself. I'm 17, living in New York, and enjoying life for the most part. I've been following some of this and it's helped me greatly. However, I have a problem. My girlfriend is a virgin, and so am I. I'm looking to change that, problem is, I'm not sure how. She thinks I've had experience with sex, because I've told her I have. See, until recently, I was ashamed to admit the fact that I was still a virgin, and everyone believes me since I am an attractive looking guy; but I've decided that telling people I'm not, isn't going to change anything. So, progress with her has been going... fairly decent I suppose. I've been up her shirt and just last weekend, she attempted to give me a hand job. Problem is, her mom walked in on us while both of us had our shirts off and she was just about to make some contact. Somehow, her mom didn't notice. Now, I'm dying to have sex with her already, and I'm trying to speed the progress along, although so far, hasn't been working. I'm not sure if I should admit that I'm still a virgin to her or not, and I'm also not sure how to make some progress, while still making her feel comfortable.

Thanks in advance for any help, I'm in desperate need of it. And I'm looking forward to learning more skills from all of you.

- The Greek Charmer
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being a virgin isn't a "problem" so I wouldn't worry much about it. Don't rush it but if you do tell het, I'm sure she'll understand. She might be even more comfortable with you since you would both be virgins.
 
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i would advise you to not read about sex in dj bible
because you would be constantly thinking about those rules and strategies when you will have sex for the first time there a great chance your gf wont even be satisfied no matter how many posts you memorized!

Just dont forget to
Have a good time
Use a Condom! (even when she is taking the pill)
dont think about it too much
stop when she wants to!
 
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